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one glance will cause relapse

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by fellowBrother, Sep 23, 2018.

  1. fellowBrother

    fellowBrother Fapstronaut

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    Some of you may as well call it quits after that one glance. It all starts with that first look. You take that extra time to look at that girls butt, or look down at that girls cleavage, and it just snowballs. Guys, it all starts with that one little look, or that one little innocent stare, before it manifests itself into something way more; and before we know it we're PMOing. Don't give in to it! not even the littlest thing. I've had times on long streaks where I would finally feel like I was getting somewhere, and then I would see a girls butt, and take a second glance, and even though I hadn't PMO'd yet, I knew that was it. And sure enough Id end up relapsing a day later, or even that night.
     
  2. ScroogeMcDuck

    ScroogeMcDuck Fapstronaut

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    Sound like you use this "one glance" as an excuse for PMO.. Feeling you alreadly lost so giving in to temptation. A fake believe is the correct term I think..
    One glance wil not make you PMO, the idea that you Wil PMO after this glance is what makes you actually do it...
     
  3. fellowBrother

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    No, what i'm saying is not to give in to temptation, even if small. I'm not using this as an excuse. The first glance always leads to more. It always starts with a first glance, or a first thought. Don't even give into that much. Obviously one glance will not always cause PMO immediately, but it does cause that snowball effect that will eventually cause someone to PMO. A fire first begins with a spark.
     
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