Should I be talking to girls?

I’m essentially trying to do the same thing and you’re in the right direction keep on talking to them and get experience but keep on focusing primarily on your goals I think you have a healthy balance and understanding don’t stop what you’re doing

 

Yes, continue. If it's making you feel better and care less about them, then it's good.

 

Here is my opinion.
You do stuff in order to improve yourself. Keep doing them. But do them TO IMPROVE YOURSELF, not for the girls, if you do it for the girls you kind of lost in the beggining.

And for about the girls, the more you are going out, and socialising with people, the more likely you will find someone you are attracted to. Bar, club, street, over a friend, social networks, are the places where you can meet some girls.
Also, my advice would be when for example you go out, go out to have a good time, not to find a girlfriend, and that girl will be attached to your good vibe and good mood, otherwise you will just look a bit of desperate.
Good luck with it !

 

Haha anywhere I guess im still trying to figure that out is being at school to your advantage it’s easier I’ve been struggling since graduating but being on NoFap for a yr and a half I see my mindset is holding me back just be open to meeting them anywhere it’s up to you

 

Talking to girls is good. It's a priviledge. Don't show neediness. Enjoy doing it.

 

That’s a good thing right?? The problem is with objectifying and fantasizing, I believe.

 

It mainly depends on your goals and perspective on life but despite other comments I believe just being occupied by the idea of getting girls or telling them they are attractive (wether you care about their response or not) is an empty and meaningless thing to chase, maybe fun to try here and there but shouldn’t be taken more seriously.

Is your counter correct ? 500+ days ?

 

Talk to a girl, find out her needs and focus on that.

 

It's not very fair to make out you're interested in a girl when you're not.