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Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Deleted Account, Jul 7, 2018.

  1. Exactly bro. The number 1 reason why I see escorts is to escape from a bad feeling. That is what I realized when I look back. Something bad happens I go directly searching escorts on internet. Whenever everything is ok with my life I don’t feel like doing it.
     
  2. I am Catholic as well. You are focusing on negative human faulty thinking in Catholicism. It is meant to make you free not chained to a set of rules.
    I find true Catholicism enlightening. Oneness with all, unity of spirit with God and his beautiful universe. Don’t interpret your faith as a set of rules. There is so much more. Love is its call. Not guilt.
     
  3. SnowWhite

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    I quit church. This set me free from rules.
     
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  4. Good luck with that.
     
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  5. SnowWhite

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    I had very bad experience with catholicism, and I really don't see the light.
    I understand that believe in God helps some people, but I just dont see it.
     
  6. Yeah I know lots of people have issues with the guilt,rules aspect but I’m a liberal Catholic that takes Christ’s words that it all breaks down to Love of God and neighbor, that it is not about rules or guilt but forgiveness, love and acceptance of our universal brotherhood. Seriously I hope you find peace. When I left the church I had the same issues as you but my life spiraled out of control into promiscuity with women and men, drugs, alcohol. But I was young and rebellious.
     
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  7. _Catholic_

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    By quitting the church you just go through the set of rules that the secular media puts you under which makes it even more difficult to quit. Its good that you believe in God and I sense you have some faith but the whole point of faith is trust. Remember the beatitudes Blessed are the Pure of Heart for they shall see God.
     
  8. So far the best decision I ever made. Things didn’t start getting better for me until I left church. The leaders there always taught that Psychology and Professional Counselors are evil and to be avoided.

    Well I ended up failing and failing. In my desperation I went to a Professional Counselor and only then have I started having victory over porn and lust.

    The church is only interested in controlling and manipulating people. There is no genuine concern for people. Members only befriend you because they are seeking to get points with God and inflate their egos.

    No more church for me.
     
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  9. SnowWhite

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    True for me also. Porn was only the beginning, next came prostitutes and then it went out of control by picking up women, always searching for the next kick. Every woman makes you more experienced and so it spirals out of control. I also left some of them devastated, because they had developed emotions for me, but I neglected them, which makes me feel very bad.

    Onyl way is to stop and work on the underlying issues.

    However, I am afraid of the church. When I think of it, old fears are coming up.
     
  10. Don’t be afraid. The church is people with all their faults but the truth of being is here.
     

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