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Almost a success story - severe PIED 90% cured - need advice

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Codrin P, Dec 26, 2017.

  1. Codrin P

    Codrin P Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone. I post my first message here and start my nofap journey on 1 september.
    As a quick reminder, I'm 37, never had successful sex, severe PIED, over 20 years of PMO at least once a day, HOCD, weird fetishes.
    So, on 1.09.2017 i started. After 1 month I tried to have sex with my girlfriend. Fail. After 2 month, same situation. I started taking ED drugs witch helped a little by keeping my penis a little hard but I war far away from that rock hard erection i wanted:) But I could perform a little. Of course, without orgasm. So I kept using ED drugs - tried to have sex twice a month - and after 3 months and 25 days, even with a condom, I had successful sex.
    My problem is I still use ED drugs as I am afraid to fail again.
    So I want to ask you guys, am I cured? Should I stop using ED drugs? Or should I use them for a while, for rewiring to be complete and then forget about them?
    PS. I was very very skeptical and I still cannot believe I could have successful sex only after 4 months. I will pot my successful story after I will stop using those ED drugs.
    And I want to say thanks to all nofap community for the help I got here.
     
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  2. i would say reboot a bit longer and stop taking ED drugs untill you get a full erection without them. if ur ED is from porn u should definitely be able to get a 100% hard on without ED drugs. if after some longer reboot u still see no change maybe go see a doctor for some damage??..
     
  3. Swissgirl

    Swissgirl Fapstronaut

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    I had a guy who also had ED. The medicine did help him even when we could get hi, hard. But there was so much tension in his head that the medicine took that away because he could then perform. Then he took it off. Just a input. Hopefully not everyone falls over me again...but thought that helps
     
  4. NIIED

    NIIED Fapstronaut

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    Any improvements dude??
     
  5. Codrin P

    Codrin P Fapstronaut

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    Well, unfortunately...
    Sometimes have orgasm, sometimes I don't have. I think the procents are 50/50. Still use ED drugs. Only once I was able to orgasm without ED drugs.
    I masturbated only twice in this year. No porn, no fantasies.
    I am a little disappointed but I'll keep going.
     
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  6. Fuck all that time and still nothing? God help me cause my ED is pretty bad
     
  7. thedarkbird

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    The cause of ED in men younger than 40 is usually psychosomatic. If you are afraid you're not going to perform, you will not perform, i.e. it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. No medication or PMO-abstaining is going to solve that (unless it incidentally takes away the worrying about performing).

    The best way to ruin sex is to be afraid of it, or use your brain. So, just look at the naked woman beside you and let biology take over, not your brain, okay :)
     
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  8. Codrin P

    Codrin P Fapstronaut

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    Hello again.
    I had to bring this topic back to life because I had some interesting experiences and maybe I will help someone by writing those here.
    As I wrote almost two years ago I had very bad PIED, with HOCD and a lot of fetishes.
    After 4 months I had my first orgasm with the help of ED drugs. Then, i guess, another flatline. Then, nothing. Could perform only with ED drugs, but no orgasm.
    After one year I was finally able to have orgasm. I quit ED drugs. I was able to perform and orgasm without any medicine.
    I was so happy.
    Then, I think in December, I relapsed. Unfortunately this took me back one year ago. Now I'm on monk mode. (no visual stimulation, no fantasy, no PMO, no nothing). I hope this time the recovery will not take that long.
    So my advice is DO NOT RELAPSE.
    Good luck everyone!
     
  9. Thank you for taking the time to come back and write an update
    I have severe ED, it’s been slowly getting worse over last few years, this was before I’d heard of NoFap, mid last year got real bad, then flatline.
    Only in the last month have I been getting good nocturnal wood, in the last week I’ve been waking with wood that stays a minute or so, this has given me hope
    I think I’m in for a long flatline, and I guess that’s what I need, as scary and depressing as it is, if my libido came back full force now I don’t know if I’d be able to handle it
    I’m making massive changes in my life without my libido
    Anxiety and insomnia is pretty bad though
    Only way is through it now
    There’s no escape for me anymore, I want to do the right thing
     
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  10. Helping hand

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    Try relaxing your pelvic floor muscles. Excessive masturbation can lead to a hypersonic pelvic floor that will restrict blood flow to the genitals.
     

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