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My public nudity problem

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by chocomint, Jul 31, 2018.

  1. chocomint

    chocomint Fapstronaut

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    I like being naked in public, but I am deathly afraid of being seen by anyone. I go to secluded places like stairwells in high rise buildings which most people avoid as they would rather use the elevator, or the entire floor my apartment is on when no one is around, such as late at night or in the middle of a work day.

    It's not exhibitionism per se, since exhibitionism is defined as showing your naked body to non-consenting individuals to shock or offend them or whatnot. I don't know how that is like and I definitely do not condone it by any means.

    And if you think that if this isn't about exhibitionism, then it has to be nudism, you would be wrong. I'm not being naked in public for reasons like health or freedom and I doubt nudists would be so insensitive to expose themselves in a place where nudity is not accepted.

    My escapades are most definitely sexually charged. I'm really in love with the thrill of being naked in places where you shouldn't be seeing naked people, then eventually use that excitement to masturbate. It is probably similar to other crazy stuff like asphyxiation and BDSM, where you channel some other feeling to get yourself off.

    Now, there are obvious consequences to this public nudity problem of mine. I can get arrested for public indecency, and I've most definitely been caught a few times before, latest of which was just last Wednesday in fact. I also feel like my body and my mind are getting very hooked on to being nude in public, daring me to challenge myself to go further, or go commando as much as possible in places where it is difficult for a naked person to stay hidden. This urges are getting very out of hand.

    Unfortunately, I'm unable to find anything about this peculiar problem of mine without pulling out articles about exhibitionism or the health benefits of nudism. In fact those nudism articles are a death trap for me because they convince me that I should be naked even more.

    So, if anyone knows something about this, please help me with my problem! Probe me for more information if you need to. I really want to solve this problem because I don't want to be remembered as a sex offender in the future when I went too far and got caught by law enforcement.

    Plus, a lot of my porn use is based on the thrill of exotic experiences to the naked body, like having weird substances or animals on the skin or being in a secluded place in the buff, and when I MO, I try to imagine the sensation and stuff. So if I can eliminate the simplest way to try to achieve those feelings, then perhaps I can eliminate my PMO problem altogether.

    Sorry for the wall of text but I don't think a tl;dr can properly define my problem.
     
  2. Move to anime. Theres lots of people who do it all the time there.

    Lol.

    Maybe you have a fetish/mental attachment (-s) to being naked? Maybe you can release (| charge up?) at nude beaches?
     
  3. chocomint

    chocomint Fapstronaut

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    I already watch anime, though not much of an ecchi/hentai fan haha. I've only watched two of those in total and was more hooked on the story (at least the first time round).

    Unfortunately, my country is so small that we have no place for a nudist resort. Even if there was one, it isn't particularly polite to be walking around with an erection which I'm certain I'll get because being naked and seeing naked people are exactly what my sex drive wants.
     
  4. Rick Seng

    Rick Seng Fapstronaut

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    Ok I have heard of this before I think. I read an article before. It said fear or anxiety can sometimes lead to sexual arousals. Like for example it starts right from the teenage, school guys kiss or make out behind the school buildings, it adds an extra dose of adrenaline for the fear of getting caught. Some guys imagine their spouses making out with someone else, and there is fear in that.
    But obviously u can't go nude anywhere u want :D try to be surrounded by family and friends don't give yourself the opportunity to run naked somewhere.
     
  5. This is great you found this site!
    I have a somewhat similar type of situation as you do. It started off when I was young, around 12 years old. I would get excited about being naked where no one could see me. As I grew older it became a situation when I started acting out. When I was 16 years old, I ended up flashing a lady in a park and she obtained my license plate number. I was called into the police station and told the police I was peeing in the park when she saw me and they bought my story. That scared the crap out of me and gave me a wake up call. Later, I started acting out again but this time I did it in ways that were not as obvious, such as wearing tight swim trunks so my package could be seen without exposing myself. I eventually stopped this behavior because it did not seem right. I eventually developed a problem going to Asian massage parlors because part of the thrill was being seen naked. I even started getting Brazilian waxes so I could be seen by the esthetician which also gave me a thrill. Bottom line is I believe this is all tied to my sexual compulsions and I wonder if your situation will progress to acting out. I have made a commitment to cease all unhealthy type of sexual habits so I can retrain by brain cells to arrive back to a normal state.

    Hope this helps.
     
  6. CTRL + DEL

    CTRL + DEL Fapstronaut

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    Your real addiction is to adrenaline. It's the rush you really like, not being naked itself.

    An easy solution is to find other (healthy) activities that thrill you and do those instead. Go bungee jumping. Ride a bike really fast. Skydive. Have fun :) that's the real cure. Good, clean fun.
     
  7. ClassyKing

    ClassyKing Fapstronaut

    Alternatively, you can get a lot of money, buy a house in the woods, and then be able to walk around naked without worrying about anyone seeing you. Just watch out for ticks!
     
  8. Gervacio

    Gervacio Fapstronaut

    [QUOTE = "chocomint, post: 1590948, member: 243630"] Me gusta estar desnuda en público, pero tengo un miedo mortal de ser visto por alguien. Voy a lugares apartados como escaleras en edificios de gran altura que la mayoría de las personas evitan, ya que preferirían usar el ascensor, o todo el piso de mi apartamento cuando no hay nadie cerca, como a altas horas de la noche o en medio de un día de trabajo .

    No se trata de exhibicionismo per se, ya que el exhibicionismo se define como mostrar su cuerpo desnudo a personas que no lo consienten para conmocionarlo u ofenderlo o lo que sea. No sé cómo es eso y definitivamente no lo apruebo de ninguna manera.

    And if you think that if this isn't about exhibitionism, then it has to be nudism, you would be wrong. I'm not being naked in public for reasons like health or freedom and I doubt nudists would be so insensitive to expose themselves in a place where nudity is not accepted.

    My escapades are most definitely sexually charged. I'm really in love with the thrill of being naked in places where you shouldn't be seeing naked people, then eventually use that excitement to masturbate. It is probably similar to other crazy stuff like asphyxiation and BDSM, where you channel some other feeling to get yourself off.

    Now, there are obvious consequences to this public nudity problem of mine. I can get arrested for public indecency, and I've most definitely been caught a few times before, latest of which was just last Wednesday in fact. I also feel like my body and my mind are getting very hooked on to being nude in public, daring me to challenge myself to go further, or go commando as much as possible in places where it is difficult for a naked person to stay hidden. This urges are getting very out of hand.

    Unfortunately, I'm unable to find anything about this peculiar problem of mine without pulling out articles about exhibitionism or the health benefits of nudism. In fact those nudism articles are a death trap for me because they convince me that I should be naked even more.

    Entonces, si alguien sabe algo de esto, ¡ayúdeme con mi problema! Pruébeme para obtener más información si es necesario. Realmente quiero resolver este problema porque no quiero que me recuerden como un delincuente sexual en el futuro cuando fui demasiado lejos y me atrapó la policía.

    Además, gran parte de mi uso de la pornografía se basa en la emoción de las experiencias exóticas en el cuerpo desnudo, como tener sustancias o animales raros en la piel o estar en un lugar apartado en la piel de ante, y cuando me MO, trato de imaginar la sensación y esas cosas. Entonces, si puedo eliminar la forma más simple de tratar de lograr esos sentimientos, entonces quizás pueda eliminar por completo mi problema de PMO.

    Perdón por el muro de texto, pero no creo que un tl; dr pueda definir correctamente mi problema. [/ QUOTE]
    Busca que es el pudor quizás te pueda ayudar
     
  9. chocomint

    chocomint Fapstronaut

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    Reading about this topic, it does seem like the brain can easily confuse fear or anxiety with sexual arousal. And while I try to be around people as much as possible, there are the inevitable moments when I'm all alone or at least the only one awake, which is when the urge really starts to get into my head and wipe out my willpower. But there are no real solutions to either scenario now, are there? Even if I try to find someone to hang out with, it is impossible to find someone immediately and there will always be that window of time when I'm well enough alone even in the most unrealistically optimal scenario. And as for everyone else sleeping, I have experienced being so aroused that I wake up in the middle of the night, by a disturbance or otherwise, and you know how it is from then on. So it isn't just about sleeping before others. There are really no easy solutions to these problems unfortunately.

    Man, nature really made sexual urges hard to beat. They always try to make you relieve the urges by hook or by crook. Good luck on your own streak and beat those bad habits!

    I guess you're right. I've never considered the fact that it may be adrenaline I'm hooked on. I don't have the bravery to try extreme sports, but a nice compromise would probably be fast-paced intense games like rhythm games and shmups.

    But, but... bugs and snakes! Haha
     
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