Distrustful of women in general

It'll be weird if he was serious

 

Hey man, you sound like I used to to a degree. Maybe what you need is to work on what goes in you and build yourself up. Try this for a week and see how you feel. Go to this link and start at the top and just watch/listen to every video every day if you are doing anything that allows you to just listen. Avoid music as well and just listen to these videos as your personal music.

search youtube and use this in your search bar and watch every video starting with the first one "confidence motivation"

And when you sleep at night use this one as well. The 8 hour mind reprogramming confidence one

 

All of you sound like a bunch of incels!
What a despicable mindset that is. Women do not owe you sex nor any faithful relationship if you don’t give them a reason to stay.

And it’s a shame that most of the people mainly boys that answered him where supportive of his state of mind.

The fact of the matter is that two wrongs don’t make a right. If things didn’t work out last time just make a list of the things that went wrong and YOU could’ve done better and bring that with you in your new relationship.

Also I’m a strong believer in that you attract who you are. So better yourself, spiritually, emotionally and physically. Take care of yourself and I promise you there’s a girl out there for you that will compliment you. (try not using dating apps)
Go up to girls you see outside. And if they say no, ask them again. I usually never say yes the first time but would the second!

 

Wow I just read u guys said “I hate women in general”

Incels!!!!!!!!

You go up to obnoxious girls and beg them to live you, when they do what was first expected, treating you badly or them having a messed up view in a relationship. You cry and say I hate women?


Please guys fix up. This is embarrassing. The nofap community is better than this.

 

You can lose your girl from


lack of time

lack of attention

lack of respect

lack of communication.


Sure, you can be the most loyal man but if you no longer put some effort to make happy, no longer reply fast or no longer show her off like you used to do.


You can still lose her.

 

Probably... There isn't a hint of sarcasm in his/her other posts.

 

You really should just try to reach a better headspace. Trust me it helps. there is a video I'll link you soon.

 

Wowy! Wanting to have sex with a woman VS distrustful of women. These are two opposing thoughts. I understand your pain.

Hmm. Try this! Start small. I mean start entrusting a woman you like with something not very significant to you.

Oh! Oh! And by the way, I like you, man because there are guys who stick around even when they know their girls are dishonest.

 

This sounds bad man. Don’t blame them. Get your game tight. Get use to rejection but make yourself irresistible. Porn put you where you are. Don’t forget that. It is not the women. The issue is you.

 

This is one of the most awful things that I have encountered. Tap into your inner power. Patch up the holes on your own boat. Then people can ride in it with you.

Right now with that thinking, you are sinking. Change your thoughts, change your life!

Good luck!

 

I'm pretty late to this thread so I doubt I can add too much value to it, but I can tell you as a guy who currently in a relationship I find myself wanting the same things you speak of, polyamory and multiple partners. I just think I jumped into this relationship too fast. Maybe I'll start a tread on that. Anyways best of luck with everything dude.

 

So there seems to be a lot of heat here lately....lets try to cool things down
Mind if i lay some of my thoughtful insights in brevity ? @determined488

So what you are going through....even i had faced something similar in the past and i do believe a lot of others have also come across the same (cheated,duped,betrayed....)

In my case, not only with women...but there have been accounts where friendships with male friends (if i say so...although in the reality they never were) have broken. The thing you have to understand is some people will fail to comply with any relationship for that matter(romantic/friendship whatever). They have their best interests vested in you. If you no longer serve the purpose they are looking for, you are out of the equation....

Now you must be thinking...ok lets hate everyone !!! NO

There's an adage "Choose your friends wisely"....it not only applies to friends but to everything in life i believe...your relationship,job..the next burger you take (not to spicy to cause a crater explosion...boom)

At the end of the day...you know what's best for you..what's right for you...
Everything will have consequences....choose the wrong person / thing and you have to bear the brunt...choose the right one and it will all be glory...after all life is based on the choices we make and decisions we take....
After all only you have the power over yourself....not on anyone else's action...so why let their action overpower you ?

So before you want to get cozy with an escort , or going in for multiple partners, or looking for love, or hating women...think what do you have to look back to after maybe a decade from now on...which were essential...

See if this gives some traction !!

All the best!!

 

Bro you are not the only who suffers from this