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8 DAYS AND ALREADY SEEN IMPROVEMENTS

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by High Priestess, Jul 14, 2018.

  1. High Priestess

    High Priestess Fapstronaut

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    I know I still have a long journey since my goal is 90+ of absistence but I want you guys to believe and understand that nofap has so many benefits for you. Personally I've seen improvements on the 4th day after quitting. I was feeling so energetic and like a social freak. I remember even getting approached more and i was talking with everyone in my uni even though I knew some of them only in appearance. I even remember had the guts to face another guy in the bus who shouted on me and a friend of mine because we were "talking too loud". Yesterday I went to a bar and for some reason I felt and keep feeling so powerful. I can still feel my p getting hard sometimes and I wake up with a boner but after the 3rd day and having my mind focused on my purpose, its not that i refuse to watch porn and M, its just that my mind knows that I don't need to. All this sexual tension and need to "unload myself" has turned me into a more agressive and assertive person. I can feel my testosterone literally overflowing inside me and wanting me to have sex every minute. I don't know if that's good for everyone but for me having this feeling is making me wanna approach more.. do things.. have actual sex. As i told you i went on a bar and my absistence created me this mindset of "no f*cks given" and I was in constant eye contact with a nice girl 2 tables away from me. I wasn't afraid to flirt with my eyes like i used to be 1 week ago and she was giving me some intense looks too. I even had the decisiveness to wait her in the bar's toilets. I wasn't afraid of anything. To grab her. To speak to her. My body was feeling powerful and my mind even more. So my point guys is that when you feel like you want to F. to release all this sexual tension you store inside you remember that this tension is your biggest "friend" to actually start doing more things and be better. If you release it you gonna slowly crawl back in to your shell. If you maintain it and manage to handle it by not overstimulating yourself (aka watching P or edging) you can use it in your advantage. I know the first 2-3 days might be hard but your mind will naturally detach your "negative" need of sexual liberation on "wrong things" and you will want to liberate this tension on actual things.. actual people that will give you this "positive" natural dopamine (which is different and much higher than this fake low and unhealthy dopamine from M). Also guys remember that nofap is until you feel good with yourself..until you believe that you have reached your goal and be happy with yourself and only. "Relapse" as some people call it may not be an accident and its not always an event. It might be a decision. Also long time of absistence may not always be positive. You will definitely see more results as the days pass but lets not completely decimate M. You determine the start and the end of the journey. You are the master of your mind. You have the power to control your emotions, your addictions, anything you want.The key is your mindset. Thank you and even more if you managed to read all of this. Keep up the grind guys. We can do it!
     
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  2. r8js

    r8js Fapstronaut

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    Yes key is mindset. Addicted mindset is itself poisouns like addiction. Congratulation on ur 8th day achievments so far. Very well self observation.
     
  3. Syuas

    Syuas Fapstronaut

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    Congrats. Also madolche tiaramisu for life.
     
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  4. High Priestess

    High Priestess Fapstronaut

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    Thanks man wish you the best too
     
  5. High Priestess

    High Priestess Fapstronaut

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    Hah
    hahaha indeed!
     
  6. I agree, I've only been on NoFap for four days, no PMO for four days (which is usually a long streak for me!), and I also see some benefits. So far an improved mood, more confidence in general, and more confidence with ladies. I know the key for me is going to be positive thinking and not worrying about the past, enjoying all the non-PMO things in life, instead of PMO
     
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  7. High Priestess

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    Amazing bro:) keep up your good work and stay positive
     
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