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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Narutofan58, Jul 10, 2018.

  1. Narutofan58

    Narutofan58 New Fapstronaut

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    Ok so I'm 14 and straight. Had crushes on girls and I've always been really comfortable with my sexuality. I have nothing against gay people or anything like that. So I found out about NoFap and tried it before but I was on and off. I became addicted to porn this year and I always wanted to quit because I'm religious. It eventually led to me have HOCD. I just joined this forum, because I needed support so can u give me some advice?
     
  2. SharingTheLoadHelps

    SharingTheLoadHelps Fapstronaut

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    Go to a quiet place for recollection, take a piece of paper and a pen, and write a list of the things that triggered anxiety or stress (school, home, selfsteem, abuse to you or others, etc) that eventually led to escape through POM as this is the easy way out. Once you identify the triggers the next step is making a plan of attack to fight them next time they show up. The devil knows your weaknesses. You're still very young and your brain has many years left ahead for rewiring. Try to do outdoor activities as much as you can, and try to be more social either with groups of friends, or even better with church charities. You'll feel better helping others and won't have time to waste PMO'ing. HOCD will fade out by itself. You already took the first step by asking for help. Now, leave aside your phone or computer and get to work!
     
  3. Narutofan58

    Narutofan58 New Fapstronaut

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  4. Kimoji

    Kimoji New Fapstronaut

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    I feel you since I'm also a religious. In my opinion, we need that 1 clear goal so that you can focus on that 1 goal. This is not easy for sure because I'm always alone at home and when I want to relapse, I go to NoFap or something else such as in youtube search disadvantage of porn or masturbate or think about yourself that you want to marry without sex problem like ED. So, we need to stop from porn. Getting busy, workout and do something. Things take time. Im also relapse so much time until I getting tired from relapse but I do this for my future health :) Keep it up, don't give up!
     

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