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Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by RamboErecto, Jul 5, 2018.

  1. RamboErecto

    RamboErecto Fapstronaut

    Allright: Question about Sex (very sorry about my language in this topic)

    This is a question about Anal sex. I mean, im almost 30 and never do it to a girl.

    Also te oportunities that i had was girls that never do Anal sex, told me that it will hurt her a lot.

    Im not feeling very confortable making a girl suffer pain, also never introduced a finger in a girl anus.

    What do you think about that? i dont want to die without do that, how is the best way to practice anal sex?
     
  2. SharingTheLoadHelps

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    The anus is part of the digestive system, not reproductive. Anal tissue is thin and can rip easily. Also, is full of coliform bacteria that your body is getting rid off. From a pure biological perspective, anal sex is not healthy.
     
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  3. First of all, this is only a technical aspect of intercourse. A sex is more than that, so you don't need to be afraid of missing such small element in your life. More important is to make love with somebody who loves, understand you and respect your choices. Why the girl you are with cannot have someone like that, but you, the man for whom more important is to try some new stuff than her feelings?
     
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  4. ak47_uk

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    This anus is not made for sex, think about it if it was then there would be no p****. Apart from the fact the other person can have many problems later in life you too can get many problems irrelevent if you use protection.

    Stop being an a** and get yourself sorted. If God has forbidden something there is obviusly a good reason behind it. Its a shame that people only find out when its too late.
     
  5. Another one for the ignore list..

    Make your point but do so politely without bigoted comments. God forbids cutting the corners of your beard too, apparently. Bet you don't worry about that one.
     
  6. Decent point, but a bit harsh dont you think?
     
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  7. ak47_uk

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    I’m stronly against this so maybe I was. Sometimes you have to be though. This is one of the signs for the end of times.

    There will be a lot of gay relationships. It’s written in all gods books. Which I strongly believe
     
  8. ak47_uk

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    And we’re does god forbid that? Where is it written. Please provide reference
     
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  9. MasterRoshi

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    First if all, it’s totally ok to die never doin anal sex.

    But if it’s something you want to do, the only way to do it is with LOTS of communication and with a loving partner (or an experienced person who already knows what’s up).

    But for first timers (girls or guys) you need to be very slow and very careful! By slow I mean week 1 and 2 will be 1 finger only and maybe not even that depending on the person.

    The person needs to be very relaxed and learn to relax themselves.

    After a 2-3 months of training then you might be able attempt anal.

    Here’s the problem. Anal isn’t natural and the body is elastic and can bounce back, BUT regardless of what you read online about how safe and ok it is, it isn’t!! It can and will cause damage to the person receiving.

    This could be mild damage such as enlarged hemeroids, numb feelings, and bacteria imbalance. The worst could be semi to full prolapse of the rectum and large intestine and even ripping of the intestine wall, both resulting in surgery. Partial prolapse can result in bad flow of feces leading to constipation and over time a shorter lifespan.

    Lastly, “training” someone to enjoy this may bring pleasure but it is a progression of pleasure and overtime you will get used to doing it and this is where the problems come in.

    So basically don’t do it!!! But If you do, be verrrrryyy carful and loving with the person. And if you feel like your moving too slow with the progress of getting her ready, then your not moving slow enough!!!! Women don’t enjoy it often cuz guys are retarded meathead horny bastards and stick it in waaaayyyyy too soon.

    FYI, porn stars do training for a few days before they have an anal scene. They also spend a few hours before the scene doing some anal exercises. This is yet another way porn lies to us. I know this because My friends roommate was a porn actress and she would be prepping for anal 2-3 days before the scene, and she was experienced!!
     
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  10. Hermin

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    Find a girl which likes anal sex. Simple as that. A lot of them like it actually. Me personally I never enjoyed it too much. The first time I did it was when my girlfriend told me she wants it. Girls are curious too. So it is normal to have it. Those who are saying that anus is not meant for sex, what about oral sex then? Also "forbidden"? This extremes views on sex are dangerous also. If you go that road you will believe at the end that the only acceptable sex position is missionary style and only when you want to make a baby, and only if a woman is still a virgin.
     
  11. ak47_uk

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    Actually there is nothing to say oral is forbidden, so your incorrect.
     
  12. ak47_uk

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    Actually we are allowed to enjoy our wives as they are our distined partners. The only thing we cant do id anal or anything that hurts them.
     
  13. Hermin

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    The mouth is part of the feeding system, not reproductive so it has to be forbidden if we apply the same logic.
     
  14. ak47_uk

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    Actually its not about what system its a part of but what damage it can cause therefore you have been given advance warning that certain things are permissible and certain are forbidden. If they have been forbidden ther is a very good reason.
     
  15. Hermin

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    So you are telling that all sexual behavior of gays is not permissible? Also, a lot of women like and enjoy anal sex.
    Of course, if it hurts don't do it, but don't generalize. It is not just black and white, good or bad. Everybody to it's own taste.
     
  16. ak47_uk

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    Yes of course gay sex is not permissible no matter how many times you say it it wont become permissible irelevant if people think its ok. I know it sounds harsh but its something that is true. Its not about there being so many gay relationships and it may offend people etc etc. Whats wrong is wrong, actually it is black and white and it is about good and bad.

    Im sorry if people dont like what I have to say but Im telling you what every religion has been telling you. Its wrong wrong wrong, its up to you if you dont want to believe, obviusly there are unbelievers out there.

    Gay sex is one of the signs towards the end of times this will be happening a lot as well as fornication out of marriage which people seem to be doing as a normal act these days.
     
  17. Hermin

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    are you a muslim? You sure sound like one.
     
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  18. ak47_uk

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    Lol, what difference does that make, it’s the same in all religions. Christanity, Judaism etc etc
     
  19. Ineedhelp321

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    Start small, go slow, and it’s better to use more lube than less.
     
  20. ozkar81

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    To all the guys who answered, had you tried anal sex? Because I had many many times both giving and receiving. I had never touched a vagina so I can't tell you the difference in sensations. Anal sex requires a little bit more of planning or preparation, is very important that the person receiving is clean, for this matter you can use an anal douche. Because the anus is not self lubricated you need to use lub, in the beginning you need to be patient, take your time, and keep trying.
     

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