LAST MEN STANDING FOREVER CHALLENGE daily check in

Challenges unleashed copy paste read and follow

1) Don't just think of this as something you are giving up and constantly thinking aboutresisting urges- find positive and beneficial habits to fill your time with such as going to the gym, go swimming, see friends for dinneror lunch, go the cinema, readbooks, join a group or go walking or riding a bike- make it aboutpositive things you are filling your time with instead of just about giving something up.

2). This one may seem obvious but try your best to avoid all porn substitutes and anythingtriggering that may put you at risk of relapse. Obviously in this day and age with all the modern technology, social media and such this is not always possible and it was something I definitely struggled with- I made the mistake of allowing myself to browse a p-sub once or twiceduring my reboot- fortunately I did not relapse and I did not allow it to jeopardise my recovery. Be vigilant and if youare tempted talk to the guys here.

3. Essentially decide that no PMO is what you want... my first few tries were not successful atsome point in time - I made a decision in my mind to allowmyself to relapse- DO NOT DOTHIS - Remember you and youalone are responsible for yourself and your recovery and you candecide to not let a relapse happen. After my unsuccessful attempt I decided that I was not going to relapse again and Ididn't- yes it was hard, yes it was tempted- but I wanted to complete a reboot more than I wanted a temporary dopamine fix. It's your choice to relapse or not. Own it.

4) Always BE REALISTIC - Don't start your journey with granddeclarations about porn beingbehind your forever and state you will never touch it again or that you are on day 1/90 or day 1/120- It's great if you are of course- but set small achievable goals- just as relapse after relapse can be demoralising - victory after victory can be inspirational and motivating- Do the 7 day challenge, then the 14 days challenge, then the 21 day challenge, then 30 and then 60.... if you complete those one step at a time the last step to that 90 day goal will make you feel amazing going at it with 5 victories.

 

I would be so honored if you join my challenge also such an inspiration I want to hear about the changes that are going through that's what I'm so looking forward to I know I'm going to him now but I can only imagine how much more improved version of who I am right now that I will be God granted you have an open invitation sir

 

1 Peter 2:11 Beloved, I urge you as sojourners and exiles to abstain from the passions of the flesh, which wage war against your soul.

So basically that's tell's me that what a period of abstinence is for. A time which can cleanse your soul because it's a battle that you're fighting against your very Soul right? Got a lot of projects,apple trees, fence building, worked on my Mustang, got my car certified to become a part-time Uber driver. Getting ready to play some video games PlayStation 4 if anybody else got one I only play it just for a little bit for distraction. My wife is headed to go see her small group at church and I've got a few hours to myself these times used to be filled with lots of Temptations now I just make sure I filled them with things that are productive I hope everyone else's day went well mine was one of the best godspeed with all your choices and remember Jesus is in that boat with you in the wind is blowing! God bless you everyone and thank you for being a part of this!

 

Welcome aboard and God bless you 13 out of 15 agree that this is working out well I am so awesome to help you out and we are here to service each other

 

1 Corinthians 7 1-40
Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. ...

 

Read and apply what is on page one remember you're responsible for yourself nobody's responsible for you but everybody here is to help you

 

Day 106 how do you get your kicks maybe rubbing two sticks. Really starting to have a good time with us it's amazing every I grow and get something new from the life that I'm living that is refreshed and new. My wife was snuggling with me last night holding my hand and said she is so proud of me for going the distance and she can see the changes in me on a daily basis. I am so blessed that I have someone that loves me so deeply besides God to be able to refresh our marriage is soul cleansing. I hope that everybody is doing well let's keep up our check-in fellows and remember the inspirational things we need to do everyday just stay positive to stay fresh to start like a new person like God meant us to be by Design

 

• God is not stingy, but good (Deuteronomy 10:12-13).
• Sinful pleasures are not filling, but fleeting (Hebrews 11:24-26).
• People are not objects, but image bearers (Genesis 1:27).
• This is not private, but reaches heaven and eternity (Psalm 51:4).
• God does not approve of sin because he loves to forgive, but forgives to free us from sin (Romans 6:1-2).
• Sexual sin isn't harmless, but defrauding (1 Thessalonians 4:3-6).
• It will not be easy to turn back, as you are already hardening your heart (Hebrews 3:13).
• This is not inevitable, since God provides a way of escape (1 Corinthians 10:13).
• Your past does not define you, Christ's blood does (1 Corinthians 6:11).

Are you embracing lies, or exchanging them for the truth? Are you glorifying the body, or are you glorifying God with your body? When seductive speech calls out, remember, “all her slain are a mighty throng” (Proverbs 7:26).

 

God bless you brother you definitely got to struggle my struggle is I have a son is 18, he's a prodigal son and he ended up going on the whole route of drugs sexual abuse path of destruction the property went to jail for thieving we had to let him go I mean you finally decided to turn to heroin and meth and he lives in a car down Oregon and we haven't spoke with him in 2 weeks we can't support anything he's doing that's my hell. I've objectified my wife because of the stress of that and many other in the way that I perceived that she was treating our son through enabling, my anger got the best of me and I objectifyed her to drug myself up, our relationship with God is completely different now I am now on day 106 of 275 of our marital reboot we pray so much everyday for our son to finally see the light of God he has to be responsible for himself he's got to realize he's the only one that can fix himself just like I realize I have to fix myself and my wife realizes she has to fix herself I'm again so proud to be able to help you guys in any way that I can through all our struggles all of them will make us all shine in the light of God May everyone live the Abundant Life that Jesus Christ will provide us and by his design become the people that we were always meant to be Godspeed

 

Please join us God bless brother