Prostitution? Need advice from experience people

I just posted something about this. If you can read it. But I've been patronizing prostitutes off and on for 15 years. I recently had an STD and an AIDs scare. Having sex with women who have sex with different men everyday, is risky business, even when you use a condom. I learnt you can get an infection from oral (which is probably how I got it).
I would advice against it because in the end you really just want to have a loving relationship with someone who desires to have sex with you - I would assume - but you're not going to find that in a prostitute, because for her it's just a job.
But to be honest, I actually realized since I stopped masturbating, I've become more desirable to some women. Probably not the women I want but whether you like it or not there are people out there who would find you attractive, so you have to try!
Take it easy man and be careful.

 

You're on the right path my friend thanks for the advice.

 

I had once, and this prostitution thing has become tightly knitted to my initial porn issue. I nearly "relapsed" (that's to say, did it a second time) if not for a flake. Don't hesitate to pm if you want to talk about it.

 

I think our concern is the addiction part of the whole thing. Whether morally, physically or emotionally, we want things and hanging out in brothels is probably not one of them.

 

Fully concur with this man!

Only on day 5 of 300? 180? Myself and doing a hard reboot! I replyed somewhere else a different case (more mild) about this subject, I know.

But that fear and shame of having an Std or possible infection, trying to hide it from the world (and it can itch!!), waiting untill your doctors appointment, siting there with red cheecks mumbling those words (‘yes I had unprotected sex’(basicly being vague about where you got it) ‘yes multiple contacts etct’ AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST waiting a week orso untill the tests come back are just 2 much 2 handle for any man.

Sorry 2 describe it so vivedly for those who read this, and in an open manner but that struggle is a very real issue for some of us who expierenced this.

The brief moment of joy, the illusion you get served is not worth the (possible) aftermath.

However you decide: I’m still standing and still sane, and although I was unawere I’m continuing this journey (called life). I’m quit determined.
How about you?

I wish all of you the same determination and a safe journey.

Sincerly,

Live life trying.

Ps:scuse my english! (Small keypad, not a native speaker)

 

I like how you turned the urge into new hobbies and distracted yourself each time. It is very logical and smart. U sound like you are on the right path and have just completed a reboot successfully?

 

Happy to chat

 

How are you coping now?

 

I can chat in private about the themes

 

Ok

 

I had an experience with a prostitute and it wasn't bad at all but I wouldn't do it again... the feeling of emptyness is just too bad afterwards and well catching a STD is a real danger. Besides you cam develop the habit of using them regulary and that's imcredibly bad too.

 

Agree

 

wow, this method seems powerful

 

I’ve been very tempted with prosititues, even though I have a girlfriend I’m ever so tempted just to receive oral and give oral. I’ve spent hours browsing website but in the end I close the website and forget about it. I’ve been with prosititues before and yes I’m ashamed to say I’ve had unprotected sex with two and unprotected oral with 2/3 and I have been very lucky that I haven’t caught anything. Bare in mind, these are professional prosititues with good reviews.

My relationship with my girlfriend isn’t working and i feel that this may be one of the contributing factors, but I can’t wait to visit prosititues when I become single.

Like @hollyman says turning off certain apps or deleting apps is the way forward and is something I feel is the next step to my recovery. I have already stopped to a certain extent using twitter, hardly look at porn, but my next step which I’m slowly doing is turning off notifications of certain girls on Instagram and unfollowing them.

I’m happy to talk to you if you need a chat.

 

Tell us about how you went bareback with the sex. I done it once, I'll let you know later.

 

I saw over 70 escorts between age 20 and 25. Am 31 now. It's a very dark path and it's related to pornography, sex fantasies, masturbation etc. You are probably disconnected from intimacy - basically sex must exclude intimacy. You need to stop all self sexually stimulating behavior. A therapist will help you.

 

I didn’t cum then, around that time I was still struggling to orgasm during sex and was masterbating alot

 

Wow that’s a lot! I wouldn’t say it was intimate with an escort. I know that I can do my fantasies with them and I have no problem doing that with guoirls I’m in relationships with. Yes I’m slowly stopping all stimulation and think I’m doing well, but have a long way to go