BDSM porn, help.

So the idea is that some people try to turn a traumatizing event into something that "turns them on"? to make something bad become something good? like what you once suffered is something you enjoy now, and itf its only that you learned to enjoy suffereing? a copying strategy? Could be true...most (all?) people that i know good enough to judge that are in brutal sex, or very promiscuit etc have a highly problematic background - or have been victims of sexual abuse.

 

Well I've reached the same conclusion. I was humble enough to say I made my best guess and asked her to correct me if I'm wrong. Which is different than assuming.
And apparently rape is OK to her according to her most recent reply.

 

Good family is everything