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Is it bad im feeling lonely and only 15?

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Bolcix, May 30, 2018.

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  1. Bolcix

    Bolcix New Fapstronaut

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    I'm only 15 but i already feel extremely lonely, not just because I've never had a girlfriend, but because i find it difficult to maintain a friendship.
     
  2. Ageen

    Ageen Fapstronaut

    It is bad that you feel lonely, regardless of your age.

    But you're young, you'll find friends that will accept you as you are. Don't lose hope, take it from someone who lost many many friends over the years but now has meaningful relationships with people.

    I wish you the best.
     
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  3. Don't worry @Bolcix I'm in the same boat as you
     
  4. It's good that you feel lonely. This is your motivation to get out of this feeling. Worse would be to be lonely and don't feel lonely - just being full with your own emptiness. So yeah man try 90 days hard mode for the start and see how relationships improve and become so much easier!
     
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  5. g'd up

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    Fuck a friendship and forget pussy. Once you learn how to meet your own needs emotionally and physically, be comfortable in your own skin and be proud of yourself. People will follow... Because if you can't meet your own needs, somebody else surely won't and you will spend a lifetime trying to fill that hole when only you really can.
     
  6. Paperweight

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    Yes it is bad that you feel lonely. You should feel like you are part of your local community, that's the natural order that is beneficial for you and others. I don't think you are to blame as a young person for not being already well integrated, but you can make an effort now to participate. Confronting harmful and antisocial habits such as pornography use is a fantastic first step.
     
  7. Captain Cornelius

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    It's good that you acknowledge that you're not perfect and could use some improvement. At least you're not in self-denial that deep. We can't get help until we know that we need it, and I believe you're aware that things could get better...

    do you have hobbies? do you have things that you do that are productive? I like to write, and draw, and dance. How about you?
     
  8. Viscardo_Delarosa

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    What g'd up said. I've had a lot of different experiences in my short time alive giving me fast maturity, you'll find a few friends in life. More depending on the amount of money you make most likely.. I wish i stayed in touch more with my friends sometimes although most weren't doing nothing positive.i don't know your situation.. what do you aspire to be? there's a whole lot of things to put your attention to. I feel you just need to find the most beneficial yet invigorating thing to do. Do you have recreational things to do where you live? I live in Alabama and we have mountains to hike rocks to climb. Walking paths. Enjoying nature. If you're in the city just find something you like to do and do it! Stay inside and play video games. Watch movies. Summon demons. Go to church. Whatever the hell is You're fancy. As long as YOU enjoy You're friends don't have to be human, dogs, cats.. I suggest not trying to fit in as you won't live authentically trying to be something you're not. But I wouldn't worry about it. These things take time and will change. Youve got this, just dont know it yet. AA meetings are cool too no matter how Young you are. If you thirst for knowledge. Don't feel like you're too young to do anything. Or limit yourself with your self talk.
     
  9. Samsung

    Samsung New Fapstronaut

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    Dont worry mate, I too had this bad feeling earlier. Now I'm 25, worked for few months and now I have a girlfriend who is so amazing. Remember, I was lazy, introverted and those bla bla.. I practiced the so called "law of attraction".
     
  10. I'm 21 years old and still feel like sometimes. I've only had one girlfriend and it was a toxic relationship. Ever since that relationship I've had no women show real interest in me. I let my thoughts get the best of me when interacting with my friends and find myself thinking they're tired of me. But when I do find myself having these feelings, I like to remember that I'm still a young man and that I have a lot more life to live, just like you. You have your entire life ahead of you and will have many opportunities to make friends and meet women. Just always stay true to yourself, focus on becoming the best version of yourself you can be, and I can promise you will begin to develop positive relationships. Never lose faith bro.
     
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  11. Bijuu107

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    Hey Bolcix
    I would advise you to talk with someone about the loneliness and maybe even about fapping. Talk with your siblings or family or with the relatives. Open yourself , this is one of the best ways to come out of this!
    It's realy cool that you are here already with 15, you are way further as me!
     

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