Introducing myself

Hi everyone!
I'm sierra and I'm 22 years old. I have recently decided to do the NoFap as a respect for myself and my relationship. I decided to do this for myself because I realized how self conscious I am with how I look and I feel. I feel the need that if I don't look like a porn star how can I be desirable to the man I am with. With that mind set I decided that it's time for me to no longer feel that way. I also did this for my boyfriend we have been together for a year and couple months now and I have realized he has been asking me if he pleases me because he's worried about his size. When most pornstars have plastic surgery done on their penis to obtain a longer more desirable length when in reality that's not what women want. In the whole grand scheme of things I have realized that porn misconstrues our visions and sexual desires and a way that we think we should look in order to be desirable to our significant other. All in all I have decided to do the no porn and no masturbating pact with my boyfriend out of respect me and him. Him and I have been porn and masturbating free for a whole year now.