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Are there people here, that have all fo evils:Perfectionist, OCD, ADHD and PMO addict? Let's discuss

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by WhiteAppleXy, May 11, 2018.

  1. WhiteAppleXy

    WhiteAppleXy Fapstronaut

    Please your comments would be highly appreciated, I think I have all 4, and they are related devils.
    Let's share.
     
  2. I have OCD, perfectionism and I'm a PMO addict and yes it's a real struggle dealing with all three. I hate being human; since I'm a perfectionist, I constantly think about all my flaws and it makes me hate how imperfect I am. How do you deal with your issues?
     
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  3. WhiteAppleXy

    WhiteAppleXy Fapstronaut

    I have been trying to no fab, but perfectionism always has a way of rendering my efforts useless.

    I joined this forum on Monday, I am learning new techniques here.

    As a perfectionist, I want everything to be perfect without mistakes, this has affected my productivity, porn killed the entire game, but i want to walk on PMO first, then tackle perfectionism and others in the background. I think porn creates OCD and ADHD.
    I had always been a perfectionist, but I never saw it as a bad habit, it was well controlled and increased my excellence, but the arrival of PMO turn things around.

    Are really on a 500 day streak?
    Great to hear from you.
     
  4. I understand what you mean, I want everything to be perfect as well. But I don't think porn creates OCD and ADHD, I think porn can exacerbate them but not create them. I'm glad you joined the forum though and are getting help. And I did have 600 day streak but I relapsed... but I'll get back up there and past 600.
     
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  5. WhiteAppleXy

    WhiteAppleXy Fapstronaut

    Wow! 600 days! What a strength! You did really great, and when you get to that mountain top, stay there and wait for people like me, I am targeting 21days, if I hit 21, that's an all time personal best, if I reach like 2 months, okay people, I wouldn't consider myself and addict again.

    Do you have a journal about how you reach 600 days?
    You made my day, 600 days! Wow.
     
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  6. Anyone can reach 600 days trust me, if I can reach it, anyone can reach it. No I don't have a journal about it. What I can tell you though is to just get to that point where you absolutely despise PMO and want absolutely nothing to do with it... that's how I quit. I just got tired of relapsing and despised PMO so much that one day out of nowhere, I just decided to up and quit and it worked.
     
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  7. WhiteAppleXy

    WhiteAppleXy Fapstronaut

    Sorry to ask, hope that I don't hurt your emotions, while did you relapsed, when you have reach this monk level? I mean you are a damn strong mental warlord!
     
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  8. I doesn't hurt my feelings but I got prideful and complacent and careless and it just happened.
     
  9. PMO addict

    PMO addict Fapstronaut

    I can relate alot. Perfectionism is a real tough one. And of course I have PMO addiction. I don't like the terms OCD or ADHD since they call them disorders but I think alot of times, they come from natural needs seeking to be fulfilled.
     
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  10. WhiteAppleXy

    WhiteAppleXy Fapstronaut

    Thank you for your input bro
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  11. Moon Shot

    Moon Shot Fapstronaut

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    YES! ADHD is debatable but still. I have a germaphobic-sort of OCD, real pain in the rear. I'll wash hands even if I can hear them almost squeak, to satisfy some unknown needs... Perfectionism slightly declined with PMO but still, I agree with you that they are all interconnected. But I'm fighting it! Day 1!!!
     
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  12. JustinX

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    Porn definitely dont create ADHD, it can only make you procrastinate more what can have some of the same symptoms.

    ADHD is developed in early childhood when you dont even watch the porn. Developing ADHD in adult who did not have it as a child is extremely extremely rare and almost always it is something else with similar symptoms.

    More about this topic in this post were we have already discussed it https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...eptor-regeneration.166397/page-3#post-1446752
     
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  13. WhiteAppleXy

    WhiteAppleXy Fapstronaut

    Thank you for your reply,
    Thank you for your contribution, I would Carefully take time and read the post when I am back home.

    Now is time to go out, and get my dreams closer to reality, rather than what I see while sleeping.
     
  14. WhiteAppleXy

    WhiteAppleXy Fapstronaut

    Stay strong for me bro, together we can.
     
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  15. Moon Shot

    Moon Shot Fapstronaut

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    Of course, that goes without saying. Thanks to you, I stopped an incoming handwash urge. Day 1 hasn't been tough. At all. Why? Cause I feel like a powerhouse of strong will is backing me up and all of this is from NoFap. I think joining this community is one of the most strategically successful decisions of my life, however short it is :p and I will stay strong, for me, for you. Let's drop kick this load of bull! Together we can!
     
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  16. I do not have OCD, but what you describe sounds very unpleasant to live with. May I ask how you react with or deal with semen when it gets on your hands (or chest or abdomen), underwear, bed clothes. Does it bother you that when you cum, it is shot from the same place as when you piss? o_O Does it lead to ultra hand or body washing? It must be a burden. :(
     
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  17. Moon Shot

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    How about a PM, huh?
     
  18. tired_bi_guy

    tired_bi_guy Fapstronaut

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    I'm diagnosed ADHD ( since I was 6), was recently diagnosed with OCD, am a perfectionist, and have struggled with pmo for quite some time. Every day I cave to pmo I feel this inner self hatred, but by the time I have the impulse to stop myself I am already looking at porn and my brain fights me. It makes rebooting extraordinarily challenging because of this never ending cycle of self hatred. The voice saying "Why can't you jusy not do this, it isn't that hard!". (This is only my experience though)
     
  19. striverpz

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    I suffer from perfectionism and OCD. I am also an over-thinker so sexuality is heavily in my mind. It makes the battle with PMO a lot tougher. In my current streak in hard mode - the flatline is really helping me. My mind is running wild, but I'm dead down there mostly.
     
  20. Foxislander

    Foxislander Fapstronaut

    I have ADHD I have been through therapy I've been through medications Strattera Wellbutrin Cymbalta for depression adderal I've done all of them okay the one thing I'm saying is I have not had any orgasms no masturbation no porn I am married for 33 years me and my wife are doing hard mode pmo limited Touch light hugs and kisses no nudity and I've been free for 78 days we just signed a new abstinence contract extending that to 184 days last night I got an instantaneous boner I've been off the ADHD meds and the depression meds for coming into a second week and I have to say the results are astounding Slow Rolling boners are awesome having the willpower stamina perseverance clean mind awesome this is helping me clean up some compulsivity I've had in my life and amongst many more I think I might be experiencing semen retention benefits only had retrograde ejaculation which are nothing more than seminal fluid builds up your bottling up and your body gets rid of it because it puts pressure on your prostate if anybody would like to join me in this I think it's awesome
     

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