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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by el10, May 7, 2018.

  1. el10

    el10 Fapstronaut

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    Hi all,

    I'm a 32 years old married male from Spain, who have just recognized my porn addiction. It's been there long time ago, but I didn't was aware that it was affecting my life severely. A couple of weeks ago, my wife caught me using a sex chat on my mobile phone. This was very disrupting for me, making asking myself why I’m doing this? The answer I found that I’m suffering a porn addiction.

    So it’s been already two weeks without PMO, and not feeling like relapse at all. I just feel like having sex with my wife, but she doesn’t want and I respect that, she doesn’t feel confidence, she’s afraid and I think I am also disgusting for her. She wants that both of us visit a psychologist and I think that could be a good idea, I’m looking for a good one in my city.

    I am really convinced that porn doesn’t give me any good, so I think that I will strong and keep determined to achieve my goals.

    Thanks to all for the support!
     
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  2. Yanis

    Yanis Fapstronaut

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    Welcome to the Nofap community.
    Buenvenido!
    The main problem seems to be the lacking confidence of your wife. As she suggests visiting a psychologist she obviously is interested to save your relationship. And in fact sometimes it is helpful to talk with a third person. I see your serious efforts to get rid of your P addicition. Stay strong!
     
  3. el10

    el10 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks Yanis, support from other users is very important! I just hope I can reach a huge number of days like you!
     
  4. Yanis

    Yanis Fapstronaut

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    I have fallen many times and I stood up many times. Mind is very tricky but slowly I learn to deal with it. Actually I don’t have the feeling to fight. I focus on what I really want: the peace inside.
    It’s not the number of days which makes you strong, it’s the number of days when you stand up again and make a new start. Wish you and your wife a respectful communication. Each one of you should focus on the divine spark your partner has. This makes all of us most lovable.
     

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