Picking up women at the bar

You hate bars and loud music... yet you're at a bar with loud music trying to attain women that go to bars with loud music.

How about you do something you actually find interesting and meet people that way.

 

I wrote this elsewhere a while back, if it's any good to you:

"I'm not an expert by any means, but a few thoughts (you or someone else may have better ones):

If you're not "feeling it" in one bar, go to the next one.

Is there a girl that looks bored, or is looking for attention?

Say to yourself, okay, the goal is just to talk to some girl. I could say hi, do you know if there's a band playing later? No matter how she reacts, I will have accomplished my goal."

Or just go out and have fun. Talk to anyone who looks friendly, male or female. Have a laugh. Peace.

 

Bars are not always the best way to go women are drunk or on drugs or both , I have never been a huge fan of them to meet women , try looking at were you shop at stores, malls, public events and practice there you will begin to see patterns that only come with face to face meetings its all a numbers game don't take things to seriously

 

which country are you from ?

 

You can achieve the uninterested look by going several days without sleep. You don't need to take up smoking. Just get a fake cigar.

Do not take any of this advice.

 

I remember when I used to go to clubs and bars I thought a lot of women were like that, remember when there with there friends they will act different then they would when they are buy themsevels that's why I gave up the bar game long ago

 

You can always do what you like to do, you can always realize that desperation is probably the most unattractive trait of a man. It's very sad to be desperate. You should really think about all the real stuff that you should be doing at your age. If you will keep your mind busy, you won't find yourself in such pity. I'm a man too, but I can tell you one thing, there is nothing more sexier about a person than him/her being very into something, being very concentrated in some kind of a hobby and passionate about something. Try finding yourself in that bar full of people, others will find you automatically.

 

Bar game is just bad. Just dont do it. Install Tinder and start hooking up.

 

buy a drink, don't let them think, you went there to only pick up girls, let them think you are on a mission, if you're not fake it but don't fake it actually, be natural, be yourself and tell me of this one worked, do your shit and on the way you see a women, be like you look cute and etc

 

I read on aproaching a group, you gotta look at their feet, if they open, then you can join, but if they are closed in group, then they discussing something important and you shouldn't approach, good luck