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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Discreetaussie, Apr 2, 2018.

  1. Apr 2, 2018 #1
    Discreetaussie

    Discreetaussie New Fapstronaut

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    ok
    so im new here.

    in in my 30's, happily married, and about to have first child.

    I've masturbated regularly to porn since i was a kid. very regularly id say. for the most part averaging once a day id bet. for as long as i can remember ive probably chosen this over sex. i remember as a 20 something choosing to masturbate then making an excuse not to go to a girls house (who i was seeing and was very attractive) even though i knew if i went id have sex with her.

    It's a problem. it certainly affects my sex life with my wife.

    so thats me. im here to find a way to change what i believe is a destructive behaviour

    Today is day 1.
     
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  2. Apr 2, 2018 #2
    Full ahead

    Full ahead Fapstronaut

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    Welcome here! Yes, this addiction is highly destructive once it becomes so. I recommend you to read posts and find inspiration to fight. Many peaople here will give you good advice and counseling. have a good day!
     
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  3. Apr 2, 2018 #3
    daveintexas

    daveintexas Fapstronaut

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    Take it one day at a time.
    Check out others journals and posts.
    Lots to learn.
     
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  4. Apr 2, 2018 #4
    D . J .

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    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and sometimes challenge you but not judge you.

    The enemy is here to steal, kill and destroy. What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?
     
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  5. Apr 9, 2018 #5
    Discreetaussie

    Discreetaussie New Fapstronaut

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    thanks all

    so I've managed to go 7 days thus far relatively easily. will see how it goes.

    as for strategies I'm not too sure. Right now the fact I've signed up here and said I'm going to do it seems to be a reasonable strong motivator. will see how i go as time progresses.

    I suppose I'll avoid getting drunk too. I'm not a heavy drinker but certainly it doesnt help.
     
    Discreetaussie, Apr 9, 2018
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