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Penile Enlargement and PIED

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Fred12345, Apr 2, 2018.

  1. Fred12345

    Fred12345 Fapstronaut

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    Totally new to this so here goes...

    Started PMO’ing atleast once or twice a day when I was about 14 and continued through till university, first came accross PIED in freshers and didnt have a clue why it was happening,continued throughout uni until I finally decided it was time to make a change. I was putting off seeing girls and trying anything with anyone cause of it. Finally, I got a girlfriend, the pied continued and was very on and off with her for the year we were together and went cold turkey for good at the end and Ive been ‘clean’ (if you can call it that) for about 7 months. But I still get regural porn urges and i have dreams about porn and everything when will this stop?!?

    Regarding PE (penile enlargement), I did some a couple of summers ago and although most probably wont want to hear this it actually works.
    So I’m fighting the urge to do it again as I feel it ignites my porn pathways but I know that it works and I know that size does matter (my ex kinda made that subconsciously clear to me as she was very thick and liked large dildos etc). I mean I know I’m average maybe slighlty above but knowing that it works keeps giving me the urges and I’ve been having them for months. Do you think this is why I’m still craving porn?? Help anyone
     
  2. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    That is one of several reasons you crave porn. You are escaping insecurity. Penis size mattered to her but don't allow her opinion of your penis size carry to every other woman in the world. Don't waste any of your life worrying about that (unless you are considering a career in sex work). Work on you. In any given healthy relationship, there is so little time spend having sex that it should not be the focus of your time. There are probably many men who wish they were endowed as you are (whatever your size is).

    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and sometimes challenge you but not judge you.

    What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?
     
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  3. Fred12345

    Fred12345 Fapstronaut

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    Thankyou my friend you are right.

    I know i get told this but have no idea how to get the idea of PE out of my mind, even though I know whatever size i get to I will always want more.

    I’m currently doing alot of reading into mindfulness and spirituality. I feel asthough its helping alot, I have the will power to not PMO now I’m 7 months deep. Trying to identify and remove triggers aswell as meditation. Would highly reccommend the book ‘the power of now’. I also suffer from performance anxiety of which i think the deep seeded insecurity is the cause. Have any tips or methodology that works best for you?
     
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    D . J . Fapstronaut

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