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Get a job and move out of your parents house

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Deleted Account, Mar 25, 2018.

  1. I am kind of dealing with this at the moment. I am planning to move out in 1-2 months. This has pushed me so far in my current strike to be more productive during days and more focused, which helped me get to almost 3 weeks. I know it's not much, but I'be been in a haze this year. And went close to 90 days in the past.

    Anyone else young and looking to move of your parents house? Maybe you should be but haven't even considered yet for whatever reason? Want to discuss it? :)

    Since I will be getting a job and be responsible for everything, especially my own security this will keep me accountable with nofap. I also plan to join a fighting gym after I move out. Sort my life out by planting the right seeds for a good, better life now.

    I actually find living at home to be quite toxic to me in general. I also have to go to church almost every sunday and cannot work out or meditate freely in my room which yeah, sucks :/. But my old people and the neighbours are a bit toxic :/.

    Any tips for a Fapstronaut wanting to reshape his life? : D
     
  2. Then you plan to move, nice and early, at 17; in 2022?
     
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  3. unk45d3

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    Yeah I feel you, brother! My home environment was toxic to me too. My parents, though I love them, weren't friends for most of my life but tried to stay together for me. Things always felt broken and strained, and as soon as I found PMO I was hooked. Started smoking cigarettes and weed with my friends, I suppose because those things felt like they helped.

    I moved city altogether to go to university. The friends I picked up here are heavy smokers now, but I'm kicking the habit and looking up. How far away you moving? (Feel free to message, I'll happily share my moving out experiences if it helps)
     
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  4. Yeah I empathise with this, doing things you don't really want or care about just to get out of the mess that surrounds you...especially when that shit is at home, the place where you're supposed to rest, at least mentally.

    Kick it hard bro ! Smoking actually trains you to not engage your attention, esentially causing it to weaken from lack of use over time, I can see in heavy smokers, there this person of relaxation, especially when they need to smoke. Guess they associated smoking time with no need to think hard. It probably affects the frontal lobes of the brain, who knows.

    Same city, lol. Altough, it's a very big city. I'm staying here, at least for a while, Lots of work opportunities here and I might to uni for another year, I get student finance for another so why not :) My parents and kind of immigrants here, so they're looking to leave the country in a few short years if not soon after I tell them I'm moving out.
     
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  5. unk45d3

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    You're seeing an opportunity and running at it, good on you brother! What sort of work are you looking to get into?
     
  6. I have some experience with cathering/waiter through agencies, theres many in my city. Im looking to get some experience and maybe scale up to manager/leader, then I can probably double my pay rate. Its basic, Im also learning computer languages on the side so after a while of catering maybe I can get an IT related job that pays well of even better.
     
  7. unk45d3

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    Ah nice, I'm doing similar while I take a break from uni, although I'm just working as a bar tender. Those jobs can be great for meeting women to date, or just to be around as well
     
  8. Yeah, I think thats the best position to work as considering money and stress from the workload. But I don't have any skills for it, ha.
    Yeap, it's actually very good job for socialising :) I had many opportunities to socialise with many people in the past but wanker me with fishy breath had to give it up. There was even a guy from another continent, young lad, new to the country after work on the way to the public transport walking in my direction, tried to socialise with me because he didn't know anyone. How fucking cool is that, nice lad around my age, approaching you to make friends with you, don't have to lift a finger :)
     
  9. A47YB8311R019K3X

    A47YB8311R019K3X Fapstronaut

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    Hey, I feel you man
    Even though my home environment isn't toxic overall but some individual behaviours are (such as overprotectiveness). I want to finally move out later this year and set the new course in my life. I can do this after all these hard years that have passed (but aren't over just yet) in my life. I feel the inner calling that tells me to do something about myself, for a long time already.
    Btw, I'm 24.
     
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  10. Yeap, definitely move out asap bro! You're less likely to jerk it when you work regularly, being surrounded by real people or even members of the public all day and you have to bring money on the table.
     
  11. present2015

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    It is always the best thing to do is to move out. People have been doing it for thousands of years.

    Move out, get a Job, get an apartment with roommates if needed, have your own life. Visit parents once in a while. Help them if possible. But live your life. It is yours and no one elses.
     
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  12. My thoughts exactly! This generation is high on cold water!
     

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