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Michal from the Czech Republic

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by just_like_heaven, Mar 15, 2018.

  1. just_like_heaven

    just_like_heaven Fapstronaut

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    Hi, My name is Michal and I'm 23 years old student of genetics living in the Czech Republic. It's been a long time that I realized that certain part of my free time is based on watching and looking for porn. Basically I feel like it's the only thing that makes me pleasure. I don't feel motivated and I want to change it. I feel like the porn is not exciting me anymore like I was overfapped or what.
    I don't have a girlfriend but every time I used to have sex it was difficult and embarrassing for me. I don't have any problem with erection, but with the orgasm, like too much porn killed my libido. I don't even feel orgasm when I ejaculate so recently I've been fapping just because I am used to it.
    I feel frustrated like something is wrong with me and I am not normal. My first experience with pornography happened during my childhood approximately at 11 years old when I regularly stole my brother's porn magazines and looked at the pictures that I was curious about but didn't understand it at all. Then I found some old porno video on CD with old flash games and it turned me on. Then I literally became addicted.
    Now I have a really difficult period of time because I am finishing at school and sitting exams and I feel stressed and instead of studying and writing my thesis I fap just to relieve my stress. I know it cannot go on like that anymore.
     
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  2. Full ahead

    Full ahead Fapstronaut

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    Hello and welcome!. We are very glad to have you among us. I personally understand you perfectly because is more or less how I started with this addiction. I was maybe 9 years old when a teacher at school showed me a magazine full of naked chicks. That was a bomb and I think deeply marked me…from then on I always looked for any kind of porn, even in classic art paintings!.

    Do not feel ashamed of your addiction, better feel happy because you are taking the first step to control it. This Site is great for that and here you will find friends ready to assist and provide support

    I recommend you to stick to the Site, red many posts, learn from others’ experiences and post your own
     
  3. e8ight

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    Hey man, welcome to NoFap! Thanks for sharing some of your story, i can really relate to much of what you say. I think you've come to a good place where there are loads of tools for helping on the journey towards sexual health. Best of luck to you my friend:)
     
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  4. Hey @just_like_heaven ,

    Welcome to NoFap! You are in the right place.

    I'm just a regular member on here, so take what I say as my experience. I found that I needed to:

    1. Learn the NoFap program.

    2. Get involved with the community.

    The best resource I found was the “Getting Started with NoFap” guide. It is on the NoFap homepage and you can download it for free from this link https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/new-users-list-of-rebooting-resources.50878/

    Then, watch this video:



    It is really good and explains so much about how the blasting of porn images into the brain in high definition on high speed internet while slamming porn sounds into the ears with headphones can literally change the way your brain demands sexual stimulation.

    The video explains it better than I can.

    Also, a great page is https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/new-users-list-of-rebooting-resources.50878/ my experience is that by reading every link and watching every video, I learned so much.

    Then, I got involved with the community. I'm not anyone special on here, I don't have any magic powers. But, I can say hello to new members, post my journal entries, remember to “like” peoples posts, and offer my experience, strength and hope where appropriate.

    Looking forward to seeing you around on the forums,

    --> L

    PS - I Think of pmo like a wolf. When I stay near the center of the group and stay with the winners, the wolf has a more difficult time finding me. But, if I stop working at NoFap and stray near the edges of the community, then the wolf can pick me off.
     
  5. One of the ways I got involved with the fellowship was by reading some really great journals. Reading other's stories with their victories and even defeats is a big part of my program.

    I've included journals from all age groups, spiritual members, religious members, secular members, male and female. You should find journals that help. If not, look around, there are hundreds of others from which to choose. When I say "it works if you work it", reading journals is part of that work.

    Once you open a journal, click "Watch Thread" in the upper right of the page to get alerts when new posts are made. Here are just a few:

    @LeoJohn - https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/159500/
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    @Iron Patience - https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/155794/
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    @ludwig525 - https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/155658/
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    @PatrickR - https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/139570/
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    @GeeWhizz - https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/152127/
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    @Sunshadow - https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/75108/
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    @Tomoya Okazaki - https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/143534/
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    @Fortitudo - https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/144228/
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    @Dragonnlife - https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/136148/
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    @weddingnails - https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/155372/
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    There are many more, and you can discover them on your own. But, these are great places to start.

    This is a work in progress. So, if a journal has changed or is no longer active, look around there are some amazing journals on here.

    --> L

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    PS - Starting a journal also helped me a great deal.

    The journals are listed by age groups on the forum start page. Most members run one journal only. That way both the member and others can go back and look at their journey at a later time.

    Hope to read your journal soon. Also, in your personal details you can put a link to your journal. Then, appears under your avatar.


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  6. For me NoFap is 1/2 program & 1/2 fellowship.

    Click on these people and post a "hello" on their profiles.

    I've found that the bricks that hold this community together are cemented with the support of the members of the fellowship.

    @CrushPornBeneathYourFeet
    @JakeO5
    @Arohamystic
    @MLMVSS
    @Rising Sun !!
    @Ready to be healthy
    @Brahmacharin
    @Struggle Bug
    @tet2vd
    @Satchi
    @BigDawg913
    @zakes
    @LilD
    @kropo82

    Look at with whom they exchange messages and you will find more profiles.

    So, if you would have found more profiles yourself, why suggest these particular ones as a start? Those relationships started with just saying hello. So, my ESH is that saying hello has kept the fellowship alive for myself.

    Looking forward to your success and in seeing you say hello on these profiles,

    --> L
     
  7. just_like_heaven

    just_like_heaven Fapstronaut

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    Thank you so much for your support !:)
     

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