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Need Help - Once again!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by DE-Fapper, Mar 2, 2018.

  1. Mar 2, 2018 #1
    DE-Fapper

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    I made it to 79 days with nofap, everything was awesome till I fapped twice in a day. I am back to Nofap but the flatline started the very next day and it’s been nearly 10 days and no erection with my wife. We are so wanting to have a family, but this is just adding depression and distance between us. Not sure what to do - added up with smoking a lot to get through this rough patch

    Really annoyed with myself - just threw all the cigarettes and want my erections back. Please advise how long will this flatline be for and is it a good idea to get onto viagara for now ??
     
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  2. Mar 2, 2018 #2
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    My mate said cigs (smokes) don't help. If smoking otherwise not sure. Have you been honest with her? What was the trigger for the fap?

    GJ
     
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  3. Mar 2, 2018 #3
    DE-Fapper

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    I have not - just the fear of losing her. It was just something on the tv that ticked the urge and i fell for it. That was almost 10 days back
     
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  4. Mar 2, 2018 #4
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    Like any addiction a failure is not the be all and end all if you recognise it for what it is. Moving forward how are you ?
     
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  5. Mar 6, 2018 #5
    buzzlightyear

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    Hey thanks for your story.

    Some time ago at the Heirs of the Sun there was a challenge called "operation fallen soul" (yeah not the best name right?) but the idea was to go out and help others. write responses and help the "fallen soldiers" Because by helping others it trains you to live the principles you preach and teach. So when I grasped that, I responded to quite some posts. That's some time ago now, but I got the idea to make a small post, then record myself talking around the post(giving it some structure and some space for free flow). Then post it as a video for the thread starter.

    This is the first video I make in this manner, just blabbing to a camera didn't really do it for me. But to record my advice I would give someone in person was a game changer and allowed me to make something I hope will help you (or someone else) out.

    Your post inspired me, thank you very much.

     
    buzzlightyear, Mar 6, 2018
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  6. Mar 6, 2018 #6
    DE-Fapper

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    Great word bud - does give a lot of positivity. To be honest it was like you were in front of me as a coach/ mentor.

    And i completely agree not to be overconfident of the streak period and not be too hard on myself during relapse. I would rather stay humble and sober all through my streak and fall, if any made in the future.

    And I am growing back from the flatline which does add to the overall positivity.

    Again thanks for taking time out to make this video - great stuff!!!
     
    DE-Fapper, Mar 6, 2018
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