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Tough one. You're trying not to masturbate, right? Will these pics trigger you? If so, don't look at them.

 

Carry on, then!

 

Dude, she is horny and obviously wants to fuck you. GO THERE AND BE A MAN!

 

1) Make it official or don't screw around. Make sure she's stable enough to actually hold down a relationship and hold up her end of it, otherwise all the passion in the world won't make up for potential to crash and burn. Just sayin', it sucks when it happens. Best be sure.

2) The whole idea of avoiding triggers is to avoid PMO (which, in turn, is to avoid an unhealthy sexual life and perspective and to restore lost purity). Use that as your guidepost. What do you want out of it? Do you want to avoid PMO? If it triggers you, avoid it. Do you want to guard your heart and your purity? That's a deeper issue, as I often find it's only really possible if you are monogamous with your very loving and very involved wife. So, figure out what you're going for and see if it brings you closer or farther away.

I like ass pictures, personally.

 

you watch too much porn and have ED because of it. Simple.

 

Your dick can talk? Neat trick!

 

I have a similar problem. Mostly for me it's changing position. I've realised that is all been about the anxiety I've felt about sex. I'm going to try to list all the thoughts I have during sex. Maybe you'll see a similarity somewhere.

Will I get hard, will I stay hard, does she like it, does she like anything I'm doing, why did she make that facial expression, is she faking, why is she not working at this like I am, this is so much work, this is boring, I'll fake it and MO while she's in the bathroom.

Wow, i didn't realise where that would go!This was my experience with a girl I was with for 7 years and was ready to marry at many points during that time. We found that if our relationship was in trouble then the sex was awful.

I used to think of myself as a stallion or an F1 racing car, needing the right conditions to perform. I now see that as ridiculous BUT I DO think that our anatomy tells us a lot about what's going on in our heads.

I honestly think that in the absence of pmo as a possible factor, it's got to do with our approach to sex and the person we're with. I'm working on my approach and finding the right person.

 

How many years have you been watching it? Heavier users experience a much longer rebooting process then light users. 2 months and some change is not bad to have been clean but for some people it can take longer. Myself personally, I'm expecting at least 4-6 months until I'm normal again. Just don't beat yourself up about it and try to focus on other aspects of life, like weight lifting or other hobbies.

 

It happens sometimes, no worry.
If it is more frequent, then maybe a problem of confidence (or overthinking). Just feel it and do what you want.
If it is everytime, then porn but honestly after 70 days I think you won't have any problem.