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Is precum always a relapse, no matter how it starts?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Anonymous86, Feb 27, 2018.

  1. Anonymous86

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    Even if you don't fully masturbate to orgasm?
     
  2. No, if precum counted as a relapse then no guy would make it anywhere. It's natural if you're sexually excited and can also happen if you haven't PMO'd in a long time from being sensitive.

    But I don't get what this means, "Even if you don't fully masturbate to orgasm". Are you talking about edging?
     
  3. Anonymous86

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    I mean texting someone (non-sexually), but getting precum anyway. Is that edging?
     
  4. Hitto

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    No it's not edging involves masturbation and not orgasming just as harmful as pmo. I can emphasize with you because I use to get precut while taking to women online on insta and tinder and I took a break from them for 3 months wasn't as sensitive. But I completely got rid of insta and snap chat, and I'm seeing tinder is not for me and won't help me get rewired to real women. My advice is to get rid of all those things that trigger you to have precum and you will be better for I know it's hard to feel like your missing out but you're not
     
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  5. Anonymous86

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    I see what you’re saying. Because precum from talking to people can possibly lead to a complete relapse.
     
  6. Hitto

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    It could trigger you yes but it's not a relapse it's like an alcoholic who cracks opens a beer but doesn't drink it
     
  7. JustinX

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    Lol dont listen to this woman she obviously has no idea how things works for men. You dont have precum just from looking at a woman. You need to masturbate (apart from wet dream) to have it. So yes I count that as a relapse but it depends on your personal goals.
     
  8. Actually I do, and I worry about your mental health. You are aware guys also get precum from being sexually excited, aka sexual arousal?

    I never said "just by looking at a woman", so next time use whatever brain that's supposedly in there.
     
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  9. JustinX

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    Chill down tiger.
     
  10. HashMachine

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    Don't be offended with that, he is just blatantly trying to prove his point which by the way is wrong @JustinX because guys do precum while watching women and fantasizing about them. If that's not the case with you, then it's fine but don't try to put it on others. And please, better behave with the females properly, since they are also part of this portal.
     
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  11. CTRL + DEL

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    Uhh not that i have any sort of personal affiliations with @Sarah Walker but this is wrong on sooooooooooooooooo many levels, it's not even funny.
    Do you know what precum is?
    Have you been a male from birth?
    Did you undergo penile surgery?
    Are you above 40?
    If you answer no to all 4 points above, go get yourself checked. Because either you don't know what pre cum is or you have a banana for a dick -_-
     
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  12. steveo2312

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    You make it sound like youve been edging which floods your brain with endorphins. Thats exactly what youre trying to avoid during reboot
     
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  13. Oh don't worry I'm not offended, I just speak my mind is all. It would be nice if people actually read or thought about what they're posting.
     
  14. Anonymous86

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    Me? So what I am doing counts as edging? Just by texting to someone, non-sexually and still getting precum counts as a relapse?
     
  15. Anonymous86

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    You don’t get precum from masturbation only. You can still get it from talking to people in real life, dude. It happened to me.
     
  16. steveo2312

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    If texting that girl is giving you a boner and youre actively seeking that and its to the point of precum then you're towing the line. Just my opinion
     
  17. Anonymous86

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    Doesn’t precum come from a different part inside the body than semen though? I’m confused.
     
  18. steveo2312

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    If you're rebooting try not to encourage sexual thoughts just now because you'll end up wanking
     
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  19. Anonymous86

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    I know. :-/

    It’s not easy at all because I’m not sure if what I’m doing with the precum without getting too sexual, means a relapse or if it’s just a ‘road to relapse’.
     
  20. steveo2312

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    Its a road to relapse but youre ok for now
     

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