My take on “You’ll develop superpowers with women”…

Tesslynne · Mar 19, 2017

Green Monstah said: ↑

I relapsed 3 times last week (well technically 4 times total, the first day I relapsed twice in 1hr). While it was a disappointment, I do want to urge everyone to NOT let those relapses discourage you in anyway. Sure my erections will be a lil weaker for the near future, but I know I can get them back! Twice I have made it over 40 days, and I racked up a lot of benefits, especially unlocking my true potential with women. I definitely didn't lose the confidence I gained with women. Anyways, sure that was a rough week, but I did make the best of it at the end. So continue to make great PMO-free streaks! Make mistakes, learn from them, rack up some more PMO-free streaks, and enjoy the benefits!

I will continue to post followups here. I NEVER EVER thought I would be writing a post like this (where I am talking about how much better I got with women), yet here I am! I didn't think I had it in me, but I clearly do! So do the work, stomp PMO to the curb, bring up your confidence,
go out, and do your thing. Meet women in a way that works best for you! =]
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This is wonderful, Green Monstar!!!
Way to go!

I STILL wish I knew whether women get better with men from NoFap though. (Ones who WANT that, I mean. Straight, or bi, single women. FFS. Do I have to be the pioneer for THAT TOO. ;-)
OK then!

Deleted Account · Mar 20, 2017

Tesslynne said: ↑

This is wonderful, Green Monstar!!!
Way to go!

I STILL wish I knew whether women get better with men from NoFap though. (Ones who WANT that, I mean. Straight, or bi, single women. FFS. Do I have to be the pioneer for THAT TOO. ;-)
OK then!
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I'd imagine that women would experience some of the benefits men get such as confidence. But I'd say it depends on the individual and their personality. I'm a waiter so for me I'm forced to interact with lots of people such as cute girls around my age whether I want to or not at work and that helps my confidence everyday. Keep up the good work!

Green Monstah · May 2, 2017

Hey everyone! I went on a Eurotrip. Now I am back! =] I am on Day 47 with Attempt #9.

I had one of the most romantic experiences ever. I will be writing about it on a different thread, but to everyone who has read/responded to me here, I want to say thank you. You have all helped me along the way. I hope in someway my posts can help you all as well!

My work and journey is not yet completed, but I have crossed a point where I can now truly believe in myself. I have journeyed a long long way. I am proof that it is possible to climb out of the hole (no matter how deep it has gotten). I'm not writing this story to brag. I am only writing it as an encouragement. So do the work, from quitting PMO, to working up your confidence with women. Only telling it like it is.

This is my latest success story: How I went from "forever alone" to having an amazing romantic experience in Europe

Tesslynne · May 3, 2017

I pray this applies for NoFap women wanting to attract men too! Anyway way to go! It sounds like you've really turned things around!

Green Monstah · May 3, 2017

Tesslynne said: ↑

I pray this applies for NoFap women wanting to attract men too! Anyway way to go! It sounds like you've really turned things around!
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It will definitely increase your desire to make a REAL connection! I was PMO-ing for years now. It was a bad cycle; I would use it cause I felt depressed about not being successful with women. As a result, it became a horrible HORRIBLE substitute. It was all I had in my life.

Since starting NoFap, I felt a void because I all I had was PMO in my life. As a result, I felt a new void, and had the urge to just go meet women. Whether dancing with them at a club, small-talk at work, getting coffee, and ultimately getting so confident that I can meet a lady on a Eurotrip at a tourist attraction.

Tell me, how NoFap has been going for you! How long have you been at it now, and have you been seeing any improvements with men? =]

Tesslynne · May 4, 2017

Green Monstah said: ↑

It will definitely increase your desire to make a REAL connection! I was PMO-ing for years now. It was a bad cycle; I would use it cause I felt depressed about not being successful with women. As a result, it became a horrible HORRIBLE substitute. It was all I had in my life.

Since starting NoFap, I felt a void because I all I had was PMO in my life. As a result, I felt a new void, and had the urge to just go meet women. Whether dancing with them at a club, small-talk at work, getting coffee, and ultimately getting so confident that I can meet a lady on a Eurotrip at a tourist attraction.

Tell me, how NoFap has been going for you! How long have you been at it now, and have you been seeing any improvements with men? =]
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Green Monstah said: ↑

It will definitely increase your desire to make a REAL connection! I was PMO-ing for years now. It was a bad cycle; I would use it cause I felt depressed about not being successful with women. As a result, it became a horrible HORRIBLE substitute. It was all I had in my life.

Since starting NoFap, I felt a void because I all I had was PMO in my life. As a result, I felt a new void, and had the urge to just go meet women. Whether dancing with them at a club, small-talk at work, getting coffee, and ultimately getting so confident that I can meet a lady on a Eurotrip at a tourist attraction.

Tell me, how NoFap has been going for you! How long have you been at it now, and have you been seeing any improvements with men? =]
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Apparently I'm on day 26, which I'm really pleased about. It has also at times been a challenge to get here!!

Well, first of all, I just really REALLY appreciate someone actually ASKING this: "Tell me, how NoFap has been going for you! How long have you been at it now, and have you been seeing any improvements with men?" so THANK YOU!

OK, so I had this streak of 49 days before relapsing in February. And, actually, I DID notice that some men started to approach me a bit, whereas before men wouldn't and haven't for a while. It's also partially cultural, I don't think men in the UK or in my city, at least, approach women as much as say in the USA But, anyway, I DID start to get men approach me. Unfortunately nobody i fancied and I still didn't have any guys I actually fancied the likes of at a party approach me or seem interested, but maybe I dunno I HOPE it starts with ones you are NOT and moves up, who knows!

My confidence and self-esteem DO tend to go up a bit on a streak, like also this time around I've noticed i'm not putting myself down so much and I also have noticed I tend to do that more after a relapse!

I feel like overall I am a bit more confident - at work and also at a recent social event. It was much easier to talk to people at this party thing. I wasn't really attracted much to anyone, so it may have just been that? But I still feel like my confidence - including socially - HAS already gone up.

NoBrainer · May 5, 2017

Tesslynne said: ↑

I pray this applies for NoFap women wanting to attract men too!
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That is most likely. I believe the reason around not masturbating increasing potential attraction is to do with pheromones, which is applicable to both men and women.

Tesslynne · May 5, 2017

I think there IS something to pheromones and that BOTH men & women can be more attractive when that's increased. IMHO.
Hmmmm I wonder...you may be onto something...you think NoFap might increase pheromones??

Deleted Account · May 5, 2017

NoBrainer said: ↑

That is most likely. I believe the reason around not masturbating increasing potential attraction is to do with pheromones, which is applicable to both men and women.
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Hmm, could be. May I check if this is a hunch, a guess or something you might have read somewhere @NoBrainer? Btw, I will just add that the emission of pheromones is aided and abetted by pubic hair in particular and arm pit hair. Truly, lol.

Matrix Intel · May 5, 2017

No super powers here. lol

Deleted Account · May 5, 2017

Green Monstah said: ↑

My confidence with women has been boosted greatly
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And you honestly think that is a superpower? It is really just a part of ordinary human interaction - being comfortable with ourselves. This results in confidence with the same and the opposite sex. There is nothing mysterious about this. Simply told, chronic PMOing to the point of addiction dulls this normal function. As we start to recover, it comes back, that's all.

SUPERPOWERS ARE MYTHS: THERE IS ONLY THE RESTORATION OF NORMAL HUMAN FUNCTIONING AND INTERACTION!

Deleted Account · Dec 8, 2017

Green Monstah said: ↑

So far I have made it to Day 49, then 5, then 2, then 8, currently on Day 34 (and counting!!!) I’m still in the process of getting rid of my PMO addiction. I’ve been making some good PMO-free streaks between my relapses, but I still have a lot of work to do. In the same time, it isn’t to say that there hasn’t been any noticeable benefits!

One of the things that helped me keep going this long (longer than I ever thought I could) was the “Success Stories” forum, thanks guys! Anyways, one of the most common themes among the “Success Stories” was ““You’ll develop superpowers with women.” Before really getting into my PMO-free streaks, I thought “yeah right… too good to be true… I'm not that great with women...” Yes, I thought pretty negatively about myself for the longest time. I urge all of you to work on getting ride of these negative thoughts, it doesn't help us in any way. I had many many reasons to want to quit, but I did discover a truth about “developing superpowers with women” as it’s called here.

Well here I am weeks later with PMO-free streak, relapse, PMO-free streak, relapse, PMO-free streak (and counting)… I can tell you a thing or two about “developing superpowers with women”. From my experience, yes (and no)! It doesn’t literally mean that you will become a ladies man overnight. It doesn’t mean there will be a line of ladies lining up for you. You still have work to do, from quitting PMO, and working up the courage with women. Since seriously attempting to quit, I definitely gotten better with women, but I think the real deal is that I (and many of you) actually had these skills with women all along. It is the PMO addiction that was holding me back from my potential with women. Let’s all kick PMO to the curb to unlock our full potential with women!

A little backstory: I am a virgin, and I am waiting for the right time. Sure I had some hookup opportunities in college, but I knew that those moments weren’t the right ones… I care that it is special, and I am looking for that one good girlfriend despite being surrounded in this culture of random hookups. I have been depressed about never finding a good gf, which is one of one of the many causes of my PMO addiction. I used PMO as a substitute… BTW is it a VERY horrible substitute!!! I definitely tricked my mind into thinking I was getting my “fix” with women, this is all for a different post…

I, of course, always notice nice looking ladies. However, before I seriously attempted to quit PMO, I never once got the courage to just say hello. Instead I would just look at them and admire them from afar. If our eyes met, I would turn my head away instantly. Let me explain to you what changed after I first seriously attempting to quit PMO a few months ago. Again, I have relapsed here and there, but there are noticeable benefits and here is one of them!

On my first attempt to go PMO-free, the first few days without PMO were brutal. I was so tempted to give up, just get back online and you know… A week passed, and I tried to fill my new free-time with other things. I worked out and swam like crazy. I can now do 4-5 pullups in one set, and I am doing a minimum of 100 pushups a day, how about that?!! I found that I just have so much energy now that I was no longer starting every single morning (and finishing every late night off) with PMO. PMO would drain my energy and my workouts later in the day were like mehhhh as a result... It's a great feeling to redirect this surplus of energy somewhere else. I clearly feel better physically and mentally. I also feel about my body and the shape I'm in for once. In addition, when working out, I now admire how much weight a lady is squatting/benching/lifting, how many reps/sit-ups/push-ups/etc, how well she swims, instead of thinking other kinds of dirty thoughts… You don’t realize these things until after you try to get rid of PMO from your life. It will change many things you go about in your day, especially notice women!

During my PMO-binge, I’ve but never once had I got the courage to talk to women I never met before. All I had to do was say something, say anything… I still don’t understand why I never did, but looking back and writing this, I can definitely say that PMO was a huge culprit.

Among the changes with how I acted around women was that when my eyes met the eyes of a lady, I would no longer turn my head away instantly. I would now give a friendly smile, maybe say a little something, and sometimes it turned into a conversation. And sometimes it doesn’t turn to a conversation, but that’s okay! Just move on and try, try, try again! =]

Post-attempting to quit PMO, I found myself getting a little better at striking up conversations with them! Here’s one of the many stories. This one lady was so amazing and going all-out with her swim workouts. She was in a lane next to me. I was just simply compelled to meet her. I had my own swim workout routine I was doing. At one point when we were both resting, sipping water, between our workout sets, I started a conversation. What started out as a simple “How’s it going?” quickly went to me praising her for clearly being so dedicated with her swim workouts. She clearly used to be on a team like me. She said she was so out of shape, hahaha I didn’t see it… which is when I complimented her some more and then teased her for “trying to make the rest of us look bad with her amazing swim workouts”? ;] I did offer to combine my workout with hers, which we did. After an amazing workout, we went to the hot-tub and continued talking for a long time. If this was a few months ago, I would have found her rather intimidating, “too good looking for me”, etc. So many possibilities to come up with such as “How are you?”, comment about the place we're both at, praising her workout dedication, etc... I never thought about how easy it really is. Again, it is a little work involved, but seriously, it’s no pressure! It's hard to look back and on why did I always keep eyes on my sneakers all these years...

This was one of many moments I had striking up a conversation with women since post-attempting to quit PMO. While I am not necessarily aiming at the moment to get their phone numbers upon the first meeting (one day I will workup that courage), nor inviting them out for dinner/drinks the same day, nor getting on one knee… I’m just making small-talk (something I previously never did) and enjoying it. I know as I continue to improve (I mean unlock my full potential) with women, I will be able to go further than just small-talk. It certainly does feel good knowing that I do have what it takes to strike up a conversation with women. If you want to call them “superpowers”, then it is true what they are saying in the “Success Stories” here. It will take a different time-frame for everyone, don’t worry! Be patient! Be willing to do the work, from quitting PMO, and then working up the courage to say "hello"! =] But yes, I can confirm that quitting PMO will make you more confident around women in the long run. And remember, it’s not so much about “getting better” with women, than it is about unlocking the full potential (you never knew about) that you had all along with women.

I saw a post here that mentioned how loneliness is the path to PMO. I definitely can say that PMO is also the path to loneliness. But guess what, the opposite is true! Quitting PMO can in fact help you "develop super powers with women", if yo uwant to call it that. I cannot stress how important it is to believe in this and yourself to make it happen!

When I binged on PMO, it was basically the equivalent of cheating myself to feel like I got my “fix” with a lady. Since trying to quit, I felt a new and real void. Nowadays when I see a nice lady, I now feel the urge to just go say hello and talk to her! I’m also not afraid of making eye-contact as much anymore. This thing called PMO-addiction will just hold you back. Let’s get rid of it to unlock our true and full potential with everything in life, including our skill (aka "superpowers") with women!
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I hope you're right, man.

Good progress for you!

e8ight · Feb 26, 2018

Ah really great stuff man, fantastic to hear someone celebrating the journey so enthusiastically!

j_pwc_bat · Feb 27, 2018

Liked what you said,
"I’m so glad I gained the nerve to just move on and make it a great night!"
Good point............ move on to greener pastures (healthier, better women).

Deleted Account · Feb 27, 2018

Very motivating story, congrats for unlocking your full potential.

fan_of_all_might · Feb 27, 2018

DUUUUUUUUDE! My brother! I really loved this post. I can really relate to thinking "isn't she too good for me?". I love that you're well on your way to conquering that fear.

We're all taking this one day at a time and your post really helped me out tonight. Thank you.

PornPrisonBreak2018 · Feb 28, 2018

Great article man

SkyFallBack · Mar 2, 2018

love your story with the swim mate! I do feel the same wanting to talk to more people (ladies included) after Nofap.

Rey Rey · Mar 8, 2018

Amazing so amazing man

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