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Why Did I like transwomen?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Newme95, Aug 17, 2015.

  1. P can definitely change the way you think about the sexual world. It is only once you take a step back and realise some of the crazy stuff you have watched and don't agree that you realise you went too far. :3

    My P problem only rarely arises secondary to my M problem so I am not actually too atached to it. Needless to say I have still watched a lot I don't actually agree with/like now.
     
  2. Newme95

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    I dont think im bisex after i quitted porn My tastes went back to normal .I have a disgust sensation when i see gay and trans irl that make My penis shrink. when i see girl i like I make eyecontact and I have a boner .I think My tastes went back to normal.even when I was attracted to transwomen,I was never attracted to the idea of getting penetrated or giving oral to them.I was only attracted to the Active part.
     
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  3. kriss93

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    Feel the same @Newme95 , I want to be the male in the transgendered porn...and see trans girls as girls, not boys...I quite start to believe that I have SSA, and now my goal is to control that, and overcome that...is it possible?
     
  4. thats a whole other topic, and to be frank I don't anyone is bi. Generally when someone is women is born with a penis and she looks like a women the doctor would determine which chromosomes does this baby possess more of, its never the case of 50/50. It will ever look like a girl but has balls and penis undewr its vagina or it will look like a boy and vice versa. So rarely would you even see a transwoman in common wealth countries that haven't underwent the surgery, Andronynous men aren't an issue if they have more male chromosones, all they require is hormone tablets rather than surgical procedure. Those kind of people are mostly unattractive by default, but when it comes to transgender its mostly cosmetic so this is when a person can completely design themselves in a whole new way so of course MF Trans are going to make themselves pretty. Evidently this is the type of Gay images HOCD that plagues the mind of long turn porn consumers, they are attracted to the female form but since they'll seen so many penis enter an attractive porn actress, you your brain slowly associates penis with pleasure so in a weird way your brain creates an attractive women with a penis minus the man and it terrifies you. These are common for some viewers of porn (hetero porn not gay or trans porn) Other forms of HOCD include getting images of abs, physique and a few people have reported to salvate in the way female pornstars do when they see a penis cause they viewed a lot of deep throating. Porn isn't something men should be watching as its wirring your brain to accept new fetishes and forms of pleasure whether you like it or not and its not even real, its nothing you ever think of pusuiting in the real world but it ends up messing with your mind.

    The best thing to do boost your testosterone, watching fapping to porn reduces it. HOCD in unison with testosterone deficiency is why the problem persists. Doing things such as working out and eating the right foods can kill these symptoms, basically you need to get your manhood back. Nofap is the first step and you acknowledged that, the next step is to live your life as man, a warrior, theres not many of them in this emasculated world but you must strive to be strongest physically and mentally and not just work on your financial gain. Theres a war on Manhood and porn is just one arsenal.
     
  5. Newme95

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    Do you get a boner when you see guys?If not,everytime a gay thought pop in your mind think ''its not a bad thing to be gay,if after rewiring(not rebooting) ill be gay it Will be okay" .this Will get rid of anxiety.You Will still have gay thoughts but they Will not cause anxiety.after that stage gay thoughs Will come less frequently.now very few come but they go away in automatic..
     
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  6. Cyrus the Virus

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    It is possible to be attracted to transgender women simply just because you are. The general consensus here seems to be that it must be porn-induced and it is not normal. Trans-women may have not been born with female anatomy but they are real women nonetheless. Being attracted to someone who is transgender is not unusual or weird. I think many people are more fearful of being labeled as having a different sexual orientation than they are about their actual attraction.
     
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  7. kriss93

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    @Newme95 I don't know I can get a nearly full boner when see a guy....but it is a fact when I see one, there's a tingling feeling in my pants, but I never allowed to continue the thoughts....because I don't want that. I know. Maybe I should have focus to improve attraction to girls (to get back the "old times") instead of "testing" and "checking" my HOCD thoughts. I think it will helps, what do you think?
     
  8. Booster

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    Personally i would just stop all sex related thoughts as much as you can, you are doing great, but your dopamine pathways have not had time to fade, 90 plus days are needed.

    Just dont worry about it, Gay, straight or bi, what ever you are at the end of it, it will be great
     
  9. Newme95

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    That tingling sensation is 1)anxiety and your penis shrinks,2)your penis tingling because it wants to get touched since your not doing it anymore 3 )a boner.mine was a Combination of the first two
     
  10. Newme95

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    I remember I started at 11 years old and immediatly started watching porn.
     
  11. Newme95

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    Don't Know man,im not a therapist.Nofap will give you the answer.In my opinion you're not gay.
     
  12. FatPat90

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    I think like some this is a fetish from watching to much porn. I've started watching transwoman stuff at times too. It's just the next rush I believe.
     
  13. I relapsed yesterday because of this tho... I'm feeling so stupid
     
  14. Ub3rT1m3

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    A transsexual is someone that wants to change sex completely. The aim is to transition from male to female or vice versa. Pre-ops say they can't even stand to look at their genitalia or touch it. The majority in the transgender community would see terms such as 'transgendered person' and 'transwoman' as derogatory and offensive. They do not want to be fetishised.

    What you are watching is a complete and total fantasy and does not exist in real life. Ex performers have gone ahead and had operations when they've retired and said that they only made porn to raise the money to do so.

    Porn is responsible for lots of weird and bizarre material like this and creates the illusion that it is far more common than it actually is. It is brainwashing you. Stop watching it.
     
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  15. Hitto

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    i honestly only turned to transwoman porn because watching porn killed my confidence and self esteem so much that I thought I had no shot with regular women this woke me up and I stopped because I realized I would never want an actual relationship with a trans person because I was never attracted to them or looked at them until porn was in the equation I stopped watching after 9 months and realize I can attract women I would like to date just with practice but more importantly I stopped pmo in order to get back to my natural state and also to discover who I am and what I want for my life I was always looking and desiring sex and when I couldn't get it because I didn't know how to talk to women or was to afraid of rejection I turned to porn
     
  16. Prismsoftwaresolutions

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    Are you dating someone now?
     
  17. Hitto

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    No I'm just learning new things like cooking reading working out regularly mountain biking when the weather is better and still go out with friends here and there but I'm really not dating unless it naturally happens meaning no dating apps and I'm just trying to get out of my comfort zone more and I'm at ease with myself also strengthen my faith
     
  18. Faygal

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    You went Thizzele Washington over the French drag strip, and you owe a dark gentleman millions in 7-11 Mtn Dew coupons.
     
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  19. I love Jesus

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    As a former meth addict/alcoholic i can tell you porn is the same as those! Expect the more you get addicted to porn the less "normal porn" satisfies you and then you get into more sick and perveted stuff like trannys, incest/ bondage etc etc to satisfy you
     
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  20. Hitto

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    Yup porn leads you to reprobate mind
     
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