Don't let porn make you shame your size! Be confident!

I have also felt that feeling that it's not big enough, although I have a seven inch. And yes you are right that you shouldn't compare because nobody becomes happy by comparing!

 

Part of the porn hypnosis. Girlfriends are interested in many parts of you, not just your penis. If you get the right girlfriend, and your penis isnt the size of a single macaroni noodle, then she'll be happy and deal with you. You don't need to be mandingo to please a woman or make one love you, or lust over you.

Porn misrepresents women, sexuality, and reality. They are so sensual. Women can achieve O sometimes without intercourse. Sexual arousal begins in the mind, never doubt yourself, or you've already lost.

Look at Greyworm on GoT!

 

It's best not to even think about it.

I tell you though as sure as I'm sitting here I will judge a girl based on her looks. Don't even care what I'm bringing to the table, it's about what she's got to offer me.

 

I agree, that’s pretty skewed.

 

I wasn’t depressed about size before this post, 5-7 inches wow

 

Women have liked mine and its average size, compared to porn stars its tiny lol but I never wanted an abnormally large penis, it hurts most women to begin with.

 

Porn misrepresents women, sexuality, and reality: Very well said!

 

Guys here are the facts 90% of women are satisfied with their partners size.
A large percentage of man are conscious about their size.
That means that the problem is in our heads and not in real life.
And here is the plot twist:
Most of the women from that 10% are not satisfied with their partners size because it is too big and they hurt.

So stop worrying guys .
There are a lot of factors related to enjoyable sex.

 

This this for the part of girls being satisfied http://dfred.bol.ucla.edu/LeverFrederickPeplau-2006PMM-PenisSizeSatisfaction.pdf

Trying to find this i got triggered so will not find the other one i hope you don’t mind

 

I don't know why, but I always seem to have the opposite problem with my partners; my girlfriend recently revealed that it hurts when we have sex and it's because I'm "well-endowed." Mind you, she's 5 foot and I'm 6'3", so it may also be a height thing. Still, is it possible to have too big of a penis for your partner? If so, how does one mend that kind of thing? I mean, I along with the added shame that I have to deal with being an addict, I'm told that the intimacy I have with my girlfriend does "fit?"

What do I do with that?

 

Ok, but they wouldn’t be in a relationship with their partner in the first place unless they were happy with his size.

 

You can do a Google search on: Women and the penis size of a man

Interesting reading.....

 

Since I am still new to NoFap, I feel ashamed of my size. Hope this recovery will make me realize that there are more important things in life than our penis sizes.

 

Average and normal are not the same thing. Most men are between 3 to 5" in length. Circumcised men have an average of about 1/4" to 1/2" less length because the shortened skin prevents as much of the inner penis from pushing out during an erection.

The images of men with giant things between their legs is a lie that porn spreads. It's only one of many lies that are spread by porn. Most men don't have perfect gym toned bodies. Most women don't have perfect figures and D cup breasts.

Porn is a lie that tricks the brain into thinking it needs what it's seeing on the screen to be happy. Men were getting erections and having sex long before the ability to stream high definition high speed porn into the brain via the eyes and headphones existed.

The problem isn't size, it's porn. Porn is a mind killer and a body destroyer.

I don't believe the lie any more and hope to leave porn out of my life forever.

- L

 

Absolutely, I've heard women speak of that (not about me, but others they had encountered). The typical vagina is only so deep.

I expect the only way to address this is to not go for being "balls deep".

 

There is no way to change your size. In the same way you are a certain height or have a certain amount of body hair, size is just something that's in your genetics.

Spoiler: Possible Trigger: Frank discussion of penis size and vaginal intercourse

First things first regarding painful sex for a woman. If she hasn't seen a gynecologist in a while, it would be a good idea. There are reasons sex can be painful for women besides size. A screening for the common things a doctor looks for during an exam would be in order. Nobody should panic, but if she hasn't had a pap smear in a bit, it's time.

Assuming there is no physical problems for your partner, then you can make it better for her. Mostly, it involves lube (such as KY or other personal lubricants) and going slow. Woman give birth to 7 pound babies through that same opening, so your large size should not be a problem if you both take it slow and work at it.

She most likely didn't tell you about her pain to say she didn't want intercourse with you any longer. More that she wants you to take it easy. Perhaps use some "outer-course" first and then slowly move to the intercourse.

Many women report that sex with either a circumcised or uncircumcised man is more enjoyable. You can't change it if you are circumcised (that ship has sailed), but you might consider circumcision if that would make her more comfortable. Of course, that's a drastic step - especially if it doesn't work.

- L

 

Women and gay guys have limits, for sure. We’re all different though, too. Girls I know who are experienced, and gays I know, including myself, have upper limits. But we all have lower limits too, based on preference. Different sized penises, large or small, can do certain things, and cannot do certain things, including positions. It all comes down to what you like and don’t like, and there’s no “good or bad”, it just is.

 

On Wikipedia: Human Penis Siz
A fascinating article

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size

“As of 2015, a systematic review of the best research to date on the topic has concluded that the mean length of an erect human penis is approximately 13.12 ± 1.66 cm (5.17 ± 0.65 in).[1]”

 

When I got married we had to work on it for two days to finally have intercourse. We were both virgins.
After that I had to take things really slow when we had sex for quite a while.
Also some positions were uncomfortable for her because she said I would go to deep and it felt like I was punching her in the stomach.
It got easier after our first child was born.
So yea... being large is a problem sometimes, but you work through it like everything else.
(For reference I’m not huge just about 8 inches and about as big around as the cardboard tube that holds TP ... when erect)