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Pied?

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Matthew37, Dec 17, 2017.

  1. Dec 17, 2017 #1
    Matthew37

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    First off I want to say how thankful I am to have found this forum! So alittle bit of history I am 37 yrs old been doing pmo since I was 15 or so. My addiction has gotten worse of the last few years and I started viewing stuff I never thought I would have to get off. Luckily I found this forum and I've completed the 7 day rebooting challenge and now I'm on day 7 of the 14 day challenge. Friday night my wife and I had sex ( or tried) and I had ed, never had a problem before with that issue. So I thought it was from a muscle relaxer I had taken earlier that day for my back pain. So we tried again last night same thing wouldn't get hard, I mean it wouldn't even think about getting hard. My wife doesn't know about my porn addiction and I hope not to have to tell her! I blamed it on the muscle relaxers but I didn't take one yesterday. She feels as I don't find her attractive anymore, that's certainly not the problem! So I'm guessing I'm expirencing PIED? When I was doing pmo I never had a problem getting hard while having sex with my wife. I had never heard of pied until reading this forum . I plan to continue with the NoFap challenges. I never knew how much this stuff was really affecting me! Any feedback is appreciated! Thanks
     
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  2. Dec 17, 2017 #2
    GG2002

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    Did you have other ED issues before like DE? It’s likely you are in a flat line. Your body is resetting itself and this is common search it in the forums. And you have to tell her. As an ex SO of a PMO addict who had PIED the amount of harm you are doing to her and to your relationship is massive and it’s selfish to keep it from her. You will never be able to recover if you are not honest with her. And she will find out and when she does and it’s not from you you will likely be on your way to divorce court. Lying is worse than being a PMO addiction and having ED. I recommend you check out the SO forum and read some of the advice and stories of men now in full recovery and what the lying did to their relationship. I know you don’t think she will ever find out but trust me she will.
     
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  3. Dec 17, 2017 #3
    Matthew37

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    Thank you! No never had any issues before now. I will research the forums you mentioned.
     
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  4. Dec 29, 2017 #4
    r_ryan85

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    Hi, same thing with me. When did you quit porn?

    If you quit porn recently, that would probably be the reason why it's not even thinking of getting hard any more. This is exactly what happened to me. Took about 1.5 weeks after I quit porn for it to stop working.

    I also didn't have PIED or ED problems with porn or real girls whilst watching porn every day for 15 years.

    However, once I quit porn, it's caused a flatline, and now my erections are nothing like they were before - and I'm not going back to porn in an attempt to get it back either.
     
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  5. Dec 30, 2017 #5
    Matthew37

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    It was just over a week of NoFap when it started. Yeah we're in the same boat. I've relapsed twice during the 14 day challenge so far. On day 2 now of the 14 day challenge now. When I did relapse am watched porn I got hard like I always had before. I never knew that quitting pmo would cause these problems. I've been struggling with porn addiction since I was 16 or so I'm 37 now. I wish I would've tried getting in under control along time ago! Good luck to you buddy!
     
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  6. Oct 13, 2018 #6
    Yuro1111

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    Hi guys, 27 year old male here, and only discovered about PIED now! Ive been watching porn from the age of about 15 up until now and always wondered why I had problems getting an erection. I had a girlfriend for 5 years in between that time and always had great sex but ever every now and then it wouldn't do its thing to the full 100% like It should. I was still watching porn while with her aswell. After we broke up I had chances with girls and failed miserably. The other week I had the most gorgeous girl in my bed and I just couldn't do anything at all like nothing was there downstairs at all. I feel so shit about myself and I never knew what was wrong with me. So ive done a lot of research and im now on day 3 of no PMO but what should I do from here? How long should I go for and should I not masterbate at all either? Some info with people that have been cured would be great as im feeling pretty down about the whole thing at the moment and I really don't know what to do. Thanks guys.
    And may I add the way im feeling at the moment I don't ever want to watch porn again and it makes me sick even thinking about it after what its done to me!!!!!!!!!
     
    Yuro1111, Oct 13, 2018
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