Condoms delayed ejaculation?? I am confused

Condoms reduce sensitivity, but it can happen. It worked for me once after I'd had a month with no O, though the next day it didn't work (she got tired before I could blow). Some condoms are designed for better sensitivity, that might work.

 

How old are you? I think if you are younger you have a better chance at being able to O with a condom. This is just from a woman’s perspective and experience with guys and condoms over the years. The reason age factors in is that men over 40 have a loss of sensitivity addict or not and most have spent a large part of their life not using condoms because older men have usually been in a long term relationship such as a marriage where they did not need to use condoms. If you have been having sex without a condom for 20 years and then suddenly put one on it’s a huge difference but if you are say 25 it’s easier. I recommend that you try having sex only using a condom. If you can’t O them stop and try again later eventually you will O with it. You could also have your partner use a female condom which are awkward for many but an option that may solve the problem.

 

Maybe the condom can be too tight or too loose, that can cause you ED end Delayed ejaculation. You can try a condom that is your custom size. Google condom nominal width.

 

Have your girlfriend cut out the handjobs and oral sex. Allow yourself to only O from PIV. In my exes case all he did was switch his hand to mind. Early on we thought that was sucess because it took him so long to reach that point. But as time passed it was actually making the situation worse and delaying his recovery. Whether oral is on the table for you is a personal choice, but it pretty much had the same effect as my hand for him. It was like I had him transitioned to hand and he was never able to move out of that. Sure her hand is not as tight as yours but it still reinforcing old pathways whenever you use it. Something else that I have found is that many men with PIED separate themselves from the sex act. What i mean by that is that intercourse is mutually enjoyable. Where’s all other forms are one partner receiving pleasure and one person giving it. For whatever reason men with PIED often have a VERY hard time moving to merging sex into something that is mutually enjoyable.