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so this girl asked for my number...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by JERMAIN, Dec 9, 2017.

  1. JERMAIN

    JERMAIN Fapstronaut

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    Hey FAM, JERMAIN HER, DAY 8 AND GOING STRONG.

    So i met this chick at the gym, who am not so into weeks ago, we've been friendly to each other we even did some leg workout together. But yesterday, see asked for my number i gave it to her. we later chatted till late night. she texted me first lol.

    this has never happened before, am guessing it may be because hard i work at the gym or maybe the pheromone thing i consonantly read about online.

    this is a good sign right? may b i has sth with me quiting for 8 days.

    what do you think? whats your story? please ask questions am an open book
     
  2. Dude, attention from a girl is always a good thing.

    Unless she's crazy. Or butt-ugly.

    ...

    From what I can grasp from your post, if you're asking about increased attraction from women, then yes, I can concur. I also notice at least slightly more attention from girls during a streak. I can't say it's a big boost since before NoFap, I still got quite a bit of attention, but I do notice more girls looking at me since I joined.

    Of course, if you're not into her either because you just aren't feeling it or she's just that ugly, eh. The attention is still nice, no?

    Abstain and it'll only get better. Trust me.
     
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  3. Mankrik

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    This is definitely a good sign and congratulations! I had a similar situation - girl gave me her number when I was doing nofap which had never happened before. I'm not sure if nofap is that powerful if its just a coincidence but don't underestimate the benefits. what else did she say and do you think you will hang out with her outside of the gym sometime?
     
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  4. Deadpool.420

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    Well shes interested. From my experience now's the best time to talk and become her centre of attention before she finds someone else to seek attention in the gym. Go with her routine and you might just become more than her gym partner if you are willing to go down that road.
    And of course be decent, smell good cuz shit gets sweaty in the gym, become involved with her group of friends. Nada nada
    Good luck
     
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  5. i'd say 'never look a gift horse in the mouth' or in other words, ask her out on a date and take the opportunity to see where it goes. If it doesn't work out then no problem but you've gained experience. It's rare for girls to give their numbers to guys so she wouldn't do it if she didn't find something attractive or interesting about you.
     
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  6. SuperFan

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    If you're not that into her, I wouldn't lead her on by asking her out or letting this progress. I'm sure the attention feels good, but if you're not feeling attracted to her, don't lead her to believe you are.
     
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  7. JERMAIN

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    awesome pointer tanks bruv. the chick is older than me she is 30 but she fine.
     
  8. JERMAIN

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    we have not got to that level of goin out yet, but the fact that she asked for my number gave me good vibes. she constantly asks me if i missed her during days that she didn't come to the gym. i would say yes or say not exactly but i thought about you a couple time or i just noticed u werent around
     
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  9. JERMAIN

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    i might actually do that. i dont take for granted that she asked for my number. thanks man
     
  10. JERMAIN

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    yeah i should br real wit her. thanks bruv
     
  11. JERMAIN

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    i am checkin out your journal
     

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