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Whats your motivation!?

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by 2wolves, Dec 9, 2017.

  1. 2wolves

    2wolves Fapstronaut

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    I need to stop watching because it drains me of happiness and energy.
    It takes all of my goals and slowly destorys them.

    Im doing this to show my younger brothers i can actually accomplish what i say. I know they look up to me and i have been letting them down.

    Im also doing this because of people i dont even know yet. Like my future wife and kids, nephews and nieces.

    And im doing this for me.
    Because i think i deserve happiness after years of being on this rollercoaster ride of depression and lies.

    Whats motivating you today??
     
  2. PMO gives me acne, fatigue, brain fog and anxiety. It’s my kryptonite
     
  3. It drains my life energy. And the result of low life energy for me is social anxiety, huge procrastination, lack of will and discipline, lack of self confidence, depression, etc. All of which leads to low vibrational mental and physical states. It's like being a car without gas; all you can do is sit in a garage and let the rust slowly rot you away. Pretty much everything opposite of being alive.
     
  4. 2wolves

    2wolves Fapstronaut

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    So last month i relasped hard and i deff started breaking out with acne. I didnt realize it was related, thays crazy...but stay motivated friend! We can do this!
     
  5. Thanks bro, you too. It took me years to realise there was a link between the two. Vanity to the rescue.
     
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  6. 2wolves

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    Thats deff true. Deff feel stuck rotting away slowly. For me i can used porn because it dulled my social fears. So i became really addicted because i felt like i needed it to even talk to people, but as ive been weakening my use over the past year im starting tk realize thats not the case, and i have other issues that i needed to fix to help my social fears, not just numbing my whole world with porn. But we got this! Lets kick this evil!
     
  7. Baldur

    Baldur Fapstronaut

    Best of luck to you guys and girls!
    My motivation? I want to be stronger. In every (positive) aspect of my life. And pretty much all what you've said above.
    Cheers!
    /Baldur
     
  8. 2wolves

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    Good luck on your journey of success my friend!
     
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  9. Baldur

    Baldur Fapstronaut

    Thank you. I wish you the same!
    /Baldur
     
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  10. u376

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    It's like I am reading myself
     
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  11. Schroudinger

    Schroudinger New Fapstronaut

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    I agree, I want to become a better person. I had the realisation last night that at the root of much of problems is not just my sexual impulses, but the fact I spend too much time focusing on my own pleasures when I need to devote as much time to giving to people around me. I believe if we can focus ourselves on giving love to our friends and families and devoting ourselves to our work we wont have as much time or effort for porn and other time wasting.
     
  12. 2wolves

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    Thats a great point, i have noticed that when i am in realtionships with a girl my porn use goes wayyy down, and i dont think its just because of the sex, but the love thats going on there ya know, i guess i have to transfer love to other real life things. Great point
     
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  13. 2wolves

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    Well if you agree with my reasons, we gotta stop the posion, lets do this man
     
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  14. ma1000

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    I can relate to that.
     
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  15. ma1000

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    I want to quit porn because I am not the person I used to be back then (extrovert,energetic,etc). I want to have healthy relationships with the people who are close to me. I used to watch porn to runaway from my problems rather than facing them directly. I think quitting porn will help me know where my life is heading and look at the future in a positive way.
     
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  16. 2wolves

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    Thats a great reason to quit! I can relate, all my goals just seemed to fizzle away. Without porn i believe i will have a wayy better outlook on the future! Thanks for your post
     
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  17. FeelingFine

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    It's not what motivates me today. It's simply what motivates me.

    1. Financial success
    2. Proper relationships
    3. Superpowers (they are real. Drugs, alcohol, and little sleep can kill them.)
     
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  18. 2wolves

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    You can accomplish all your goals, once you cut off the poison
     
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  19. Summer Son

    Summer Son Fapstronaut

    Because I want to get my life back. Really. For a long time, I forget "feeling normal" or "feeling good" . I always feel depressed while I was starting to watch porn. My motivation? Being myself for a human. Get my potantial back. Because I hate to being zombie. Pornography affected everything. I hope every person get theirs life back.
     
  20. Badra123

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    I want to stop because lack of self esteem , lack of confidence , procrastinating everything , low energy ,, I just want other restore myself
     

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