A Progressive Challenge-A different kind of challenge- all levels

Yeah a work friend asked a few of us if we fancied doing it. Social aspect, keeping busy and also the confidence and discipline too.

 

I’m in! Today is day 0 ....I’m REALLY struggling to make it a week, it’s been 6 months sense I’ve PMOd on a weekday, but weekends get EVERYTIME. I have never passed a weekend so maybe I can find encouragement here, tips perhaps?

 

I read through some of the thread, I believe this is it, I’m starting with a 10 day goal then 20, 30 etc. but the ultimate goal is to quit forever and meet a nice girl and have a family eventually, luckily I am not a virgin and I understand what sex feels like, but I do have PIED. (Lost my vCard with penis pills, which I don’t recommend” my BIGGEST trigger is Bordem, and laziness...and I can’t fight bordem without getting over my laziness on the weekends. I have a very physically demanding job and I am absolutely drained on the weekends, so I would call it noted tiredness not laziness.

 

10/14. The fact that I survived the weekend is a wonder.

 

Okay I’ll go and go through the whole thread right now. And yeah that makes sense, I’m gonna go through the thread and I may have a few questions for you later if they aren’t already answered. Your support means a lot to me and I’m going to help you support everyone else, we will all get through this together

 

Day 7 for me as well!

 

Heck yeah man! You most definitely got this! What is your next goal? You are gonna blow them all out of the water, I can tell you that much.

 

Just gonna try and take this one week at a time, so 14 days next! Thanks man

 

You got this, I’m going for 10 days right now. Keep us posted man! Hang in there

 

Day 5/5. SUCCESS!
I cleaned and rearranged my room today. Feeling positive energy in there, it's a pure and pristine room now.
Onwards towards the next challenge: doubling up, 10 days more.

I started practicing Chinese martial arts 6 months ago. During this time I have learned so much about my self and gained a new level of confidence in life that was previously unimaginable for me. It has helped me quit multiple addiction and clarified my mind and led me onto a path of evolution.
I am so excited to hear that you are taking this path!

OK, I get you! It is so difficult to not let yourself go when you have to relax.
I recommend that you take 15 min every weekday with a notepad and just brainstorm and plan how you could spend your next weekend so that you would have the least possible triggers and best option for success.

 

It's been rough for me too, but despite the thoughts, you didn't relapse. You are stronger than you think. You are in control and are reflecting on where your challenges are and what strategies you need to fight them with. That doesn't describe a weak mind, just one that is being challenged. Trust me, I know - I'm there too man.

Now Martial Arts - is a brilliant idea, I used to do Taekwondo years ago - but the underlying principle of mind over matter sounds like exactly what you need. You are strong. Remain strong. You got this!

 

My Day 7 started..this is my first week victory Thank you all for ur encouragement to reach this...my next target is 14 days...

 

Hey! Back at day 1. Staying with friends so it's helping.