QUESTION: how often wet dreems are supposed to "happen"??

Depends on the person. There is simply no answer to the question. Some people will have wet dreams every week or two. Some people will never have wet dreams, releasing it in their urine instead.

For example, I'm almost at 80 days, and I haven't had a wet dream yet. I've had one or maybe two MAX in my lifetime. My body just doesn't seem to be into wet dreams. And yet I'm completely healthy.

 

Just stop watching the sizzling actors in films and dont surf the net too often. Get yourself busy with studying or going through some adventurous books. Just try to get yourself involved in works. Good Works. That'll definitely help. You can also try having cornflakes every morning. It reduces the level of horny feeling inside you. Hope it helps.

 

Hi heraclito1988.

I wanted to know the exact same thing about 10 days ago just before I relapse so please take my advice. I went 84 days and like you had my first wet dream around day 33, then about every 2 weeks, then once a week. I then had 4 wet dreams in 5 days! I think the main reason was that there was a desire to look at P...anyway after those 4 wet dreams I did MO (not PMO), I think because the wet dreams built up the chaser effect which lead to MO. Luckily I came back to the forum and another brother prevented me from looking at P and now I am around day 10 of being clean - No MO, PMO or wet dreams. Long story short, I think if P is on your mind you have to find a way not to distract yourself or do something of higher value etc.
Hope it helps.
Mish