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You're a good man. Be attentive, be a good listener, and perhaps try not to necessarily provide solutions immediately. She may tell you what she needs from you, if you gently prompt her to do so.

 

Don't take it personally. Porn addiction is never a reflection of a spouse's self worth. We are all born with intrinsic self worth but just deceived into chasing delusions. Having a clear realisation of the fact we are all frail humans will help you ease back from any bitterness. Forgive her and help her to heal the wounds that caused many of us to end up here in the first place. Be as emotionally available as possible but while remaining unmoved by the shifting feminine emotions. Ive been relearning my concepts of masculinity on this journey and really begin to realise what women truly desire at their core is that solid compassionate rock that will allow her to collapse emotionally and physically into your arms and be herself. Explore your own issues and emotions - particularly in reference to the false masculinity currently being fed to us by society. Women are subject to the same crap and build up their own fantasies based on romance novels and glamour magazines. They too can live in a fairytale... knight in shining armour etc. Hope this helps. God bless you Sir.