need help - keep relapsing

Covenant Eyes is a paid service, but it might be worth it, especially if you have a couple of accountability partners. I believe it has its own filter, but the main benefit is that it will send reports of your Internet usage to accountability partners. It will even send reports of periods when it has been disabled, so even though there will be ways around it, you'll have to explain to your accountability partners what happened, which probably isn't something you'll want to do.

I suppose you could set this up with online partners, but it would probably be better with real-life ones. If you don't have any, perhaps attend an SA meeting or two.

 

I've been here, finding ways around blockers. I don't bother with blockers anymore because I actually find I relapse more when I use them. I think it's more important for me to learn to choose not to watch porn rather than restrict myself from it. But that's just me.

If you're really serious, install StayFocusd and use the 'nuclear mode' on it. Basically, all websites are blocked except those of your choice, but that doesn't always work if you have to use your computer for work/research purposes. There are more features on the StayFocusd addon, and it's free, so I recommend checking it out

 

I use porn blocker on my iPad and phone. I also use the parental restrictions on the phone as a backup.

 

It really helps eliminate visual stimuli even in fantasizing.

 

I use spin app for my Android