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How can I break unhealthy fetishes?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by JunpeiRyuhara, Sep 20, 2017.

  1. JunpeiRyuhara

    JunpeiRyuhara Fapstronaut

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    I have two particular fetishes that I, when not overwhelmed by my libido, find extremely problematic, as they can easily lead to unintended things, things that could bring suffering to my girlfriend and hopefully future wife. When we make that decision, it will be different, but my mind fetishises it. I won't go into detail here, but if anyone has had something similar to this and wishes to help or even just talk about mutual experiences (idk, maybe I can help somehow), I'm open to a private message.

    I feel gross for even telling people what these two fetishes are, but with no detail:
    - Impregnation
    - Attraction to pregnant women / pregnant belly
     
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  2. MarinoBigFan1984

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    Did they develop before or after your exposure to porn
     
  3. Plutonium

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    Don't worry - on the scale of fetishes shared by various people on here those two would probably barely even register...!

    Each time my wife was pregnant it was a very erotic time. While I don't have that particular fetish I suspect it is quite common.
     
  4. Hitto

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    no judgement man I would have to say that's one of the most tame fetishes ivee seen on here but I can see how being attracted to a pregnant women other than your wife can be wrong
     
  5. JunpeiRyuhara

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    Before.
     
  6. MarinoBigFan1984

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    They will be more difficult to remove. More burned into your brain.
     
  7. nofepper

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    I don't think this is gross or bad fetish, mine is worse.
     
  8. VanillaMacDre

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    I'm curious
     
  9. ICDI

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    its not a bad fetish to have... but if its still a fetish due to porn and its not what people call normal, and you obviously are unhappy about it so quit it i say!
     
  10. Plutonium

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    Is it not bordering on the irresponsible to say this? What evidence are you basing your claim on?

    When I was much younger I had a fetish for girls with thigh length stockings - now I don't. Big deal. We all change.

    Who knows? - his getting married, impregnating her then making out during pregnancy might just get it out of his system.

    Never say never...
     
  11. nofepper

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    imagine myself as woman when i watch porn, i hope it will be removed from my head after reboot
     
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  12. Plutonium

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    Like imagining you're the woman in a particular porn scene?
     
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  13. nofepper

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    yes, i am not sure is it porn induced or not so i need to do full reboot and see what is my real sexuality
     
  14. Casper0n

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    He's really referring to the notion that most pre-porn fetishes are natural, unlike the conditioned fetishes that can develop with P abuse. From what I read, the natural ones will always be a part of you and a reliable turn on that you can finish with, whereas the conditioned ones gradually fade after abstaining from their use.

    I, too, am sorting some of these out and trying to figure out what's natural and what's conditioned for me. A silver lining is that you can still develop other sexual interests with a partner and perform, but the natural fetishes will always be a reliable catalyst for you.
     
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  15. Godsrottweiler

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    As others have said pregnant porn is not all that uncommon. I enjoyed it has well.
     
  16. kingpietro

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    Wat is "Impregnation porn" Is it when the guy cum's inside a girl or what?
    If so that isn't that a sick fethis lot of guys watch that
     
  17. JunpeiRyuhara

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    Well, I like to think I'm naturally quite a romantic anyway, I'd always do my best for her, but especially while she's pregnant. I would really want her to know that I still find her very attractive even while she's carrying. I want to be a father anyway, so I'm definitely going to be the type of guy who will be amazed by her progress.

    For me the attraction is specifically the fact I want to rub her belly, and her comments on her size. I really can't wait to see her 7 or 8 months with my seed. She's beautiful as is, but when she's about to bear a child, especially my child, that just sounds great.

    I more like the confirmation of the seed being sown.
     
  18. noonoon

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    I think you're mistaken on what this is. There is nothing inherently wrong with this attraction/ desire. So the fact that you had it before P is not too surprising. What p has done is perverted a natural interest and made it hyper-interest or compulsive.
    Walk away from the p and m and you'll likely find the interest diminishes back to a healthy level.
     
  19. phwrancesco

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  20. kingpietro

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    Say what? what do you mean?
     

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