Vaginal Bleeding?

chill man! when i lost my virginity I lost blood, i don't think he did use fingers though. then when i had a guy with whom we had intense s, i for a couple of times bleed also for days after and i felt some pain in my body. i think it is normal and it is not assault. just a normal girl losing her virginity step-by-step. try to do PIV and be more gentle and patient

 

1) If it was consensual and she is over the age of 18 or even 16 in many states then you cannot be charged with sexual assault. Unless she is mentally incompetent in some way and you were fully aware of her inability to make sound decisions. If you are in a position of authority to her such as a teacher, employer, doctor, etc. Or if you exposed her to a sexually transmitted disease that you were knowingly inflicted with and did not inform her of your status beforehand.
2) It is very common for females (especially ones that are not sexually active) to have spotting or even light bleeding after any type of penetration. Even a trip to the gynecologist involves digital (fingers) penetration and manipulation/exploration, insertion of multiple medical devices such a a speculum, swabs, etc and causes bleeding for many days afterward for most females even though the gyn's use a ton of lubricant.
So, a sexually inexperienced young lady that may or may not be adequately lubricated, may or may not still have her hyman intact and most likely has a relatively small vaginal opening and canal would likely experience at the very least spotting. The stretching of her vaginal tissues and possible tearing could cause bleeding for a few days as well though.
3) It could, like already stated be her period. Even if her period wasn't due to begin yet, the digital penetration and possible internal stretching coupled with the uterine spasms that occur during orgasm and mimic the uterine cramping done during menstruation could've loosened the uterine lining earlier and caused menstruation to begin.

I think you are perfectly safe as far as any criminal charges go as long as none of the above mentioned possibilities in #1 are an issue. Also the bleeding isn't a real concern in and of itself. It's more the amount of blood lost and the color of the blood that would help narrow the possibilities for concern. Bleeding for a few days after though and possibly even some cramping is normal and expected and not something to panic about just yet. Be sympathetic and supportive of her. If you really like her, be a sweetheart and bring her some soup & salad from like panera bread, some spinach dip from somewhere or any other foods that have leafy greens or fresh veggies/fruits that contain iron, folic acid, vitamin c, and vitamins b-6 and b-12. Or any of her favorite comfort foods really. Invest in a small manicure kit. Yes, they do sell them for men and have a variety of different sizes, prices and "manly" accessories and options you can get with it. Really though, just a nail trimmer and a nail file/emery board is all that's needed. Keep your nails short, neat, clean and have smooth edges always. Not only will she (or any girl for that matter) appreciate it but it also helps avoid the possibility in the future of scraping and scratching the delicate vaginal tissues. It also helps lower the risk of her getting a yeast or bacterial infection due to anything hiding out under dirty, unkempt fingernails. Plus, some girls see a guy that has clean, well kept nails and thinks "if he pays that much attention and detail to his fingernails then I wonder how much attention he would pay to my ......." All in all, it's win-win. So, good luck with everything. Dont stress until it's truly needed and be sweet and appreciative to a scared young girl who gave you a gift in sharing a part of herself with you.

 

Sadly, this is too true. Men never stop to think that the porn they are watching was made by men with men being the target audience and that the women are being paid to be there. They base all of their actions and opinions towards women off of something that doesn't even take a woman's needs, desires or even point of view into consideration. They would learn far more and be considerably more successful with women if they read anything from a woman's perspective or with a woman's desires in mind. Heck, even watching porn that is made and produced by women for women would teach them at least a few things.

 

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