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I am resetting my counter. Here is why

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Xevip, Sep 17, 2017.

  1. Xevip

    Xevip Fapstronaut

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    Hi I managed some 45 days of Nofap. I suffer from DE/Death Grip
    At day 25, I had S" with my GF. We used a Condom, but I was unable to O. Same day I tried without condom and it worked twice. At the same time, my gf also gave me a Handjob. ( my first potential relapse)

    At day 48, I had S" with my GF again. I managed to O" even with a condom once. But after that (next 2 days), I kept failing and kept trying (We have about three 30 mins sessions each with condom, but couldn't Orgasm during two days) . At last, MY GF gave me two hand jobs (on two different days, So I could O".)

    Because I had 3 handjobs from my GF in total, I am resetting my counter and now going for Hard mode (No O for the next 90 day)
    Comments welcome if I should reset and on my progress in the 50 days. I dont really have ED (maybe very very mild).
    My ultimate goal is to increase sensitivity of my P" so I can O withing 15 mins.

    Another thing: O from hand job strangely was pretty strong quite strong actually
     
    Last edited: Sep 17, 2017
  2. pranav02

    pranav02 Fapstronaut

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    Maybe you should. Refrain from all sexual activity for 90 days or even 120 days if you want and you'll be good I presume
     
  3. YYZed

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    Just curious why won't you say penis or orgasm? Lol. Anyways, maybe you need to go without sexual activity for about a week or so to really get your sensitivity in the right place, deathgrip can really desensitize you. After about 7 days (the magic number) of zero sexual activity your sensitivity will be in a much better place.

    Does your girlfriend know what's going on? If not just explain to her you'd like to take an extended break of abstinence for 7 days or so because you're having issues with your sensitivity, if she doesn't want to go that long just tell her how awesome and explosive your sex will be after 7 days of going without.

    You'd be surprised how quickly you regain sensitivity after this short time if you TRULY do nothing, no edging, no porn at all, go monk mode for 7 days. And don't masturbate at all anymore sense you have a girlfriend and sounds like get sex on the regular, you don't need to fap ever when you can have sex.
     
  4. Xevip

    Xevip Fapstronaut

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    I was on monk mode for 25 days first and then another 20 days.
     

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