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    Married, no real sex but secret porn

    Getting honest is going to be an important step in your recovery, the most important step actually. I don't think I would dump it all out on day...
    Post by: TheMightyQuinn, Sep 9, 2019 in forum: Rebooting in a Relationship
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    Quinn's marriage journal

    Hi everyone. I've started keeping a private journal lately so I havent posted much. Things have been really up and really down but they are...
    Post by: TheMightyQuinn, Sep 6, 2019 in forum: Rebooting in a Relationship
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    If You Know Your Partner Is Lying...

    I agree but mostly found issue with the way it was said without compassion or empathy. I know I would be devastated if my home were breaking up...
    Post by: TheMightyQuinn, Sep 5, 2019 in forum: Rebooting in a Relationship
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    Never have enough love?

    Thanks @WhyNotStop That's very helpful. I'm aware of the 5 love languages. Mine is touch, my wife's is acts of service. She says touch is her...
    Post by: TheMightyQuinn, Sep 5, 2019 in forum: Rebooting in a Relationship
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    Never have enough love?

    This post is a gem. I can relate both to the place where I am in my marriage and my relationship with myself which is still lacking but is an...
    Post by: TheMightyQuinn, Sep 5, 2019 in forum: Rebooting in a Relationship
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    I watched porn for a couple of hours with my wife. Did i relapse?

    One TV show and you're ready to try it? You both are missing something. This is a big decision and it goes way deeper than that. The TV show may...
    Post by: TheMightyQuinn, Sep 4, 2019 in forum: Rebooting in a Relationship
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    I watched porn for a couple of hours with my wife. Did i relapse?

    It's not black and white. There's not enough information about you, your recovery, your wife, and your relationship to say. I would consider both...
    Post by: TheMightyQuinn, Sep 3, 2019 in forum: Rebooting in a Relationship
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    Never have enough love?

    I can relate to your experience. I have been married for 5 years and often feel this way. If you read my journal, you will see my most recent...
    Post by: TheMightyQuinn, Sep 3, 2019 in forum: Rebooting in a Relationship
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    HELP - Get hard erections with gf but goes down when acting on it

    Try to completely let go of the expectation that you have to stay hard. Just forget about it. Know it's going to happen for now and allow it to...
    Post by: TheMightyQuinn, Aug 30, 2019 in forum: Rebooting in a Relationship
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    Quinn's marriage journal

    Feeling really bad today. Just feeling really anxious and down. Been working all day but can't shake this feeling that I don't make my wife happy....
    Post by: TheMightyQuinn, Aug 28, 2019 in forum: Rebooting in a Relationship
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    Being honest with your SO, how does it work?

    I do it all the time myself, brother. Been feeling that way most of the day. I can empathize with the way you feel. So many times I feel (and act...
    Post by: TheMightyQuinn, Aug 28, 2019 in forum: Partner Support
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    Being honest with your SO, how does it work?

    Let me also put it another way. If you had said "I justify my use of pornography because my partner is having an affair" you would expect people...
    Post by: TheMightyQuinn, Aug 28, 2019 in forum: Partner Support
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    Being honest with your SO, how does it work?

    I'm still concerned with this line of thinking. It sounds like you are describing an affair by your partner. I had similar thinking in my...
    Post by: TheMightyQuinn, Aug 28, 2019 in forum: Partner Support
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    Being honest with your SO, how does it work?

    As you say it, it sounds like you both destroyed the relationship. Own your part for sure. But revenge is not an positive step at healing a...
    Post by: TheMightyQuinn, Aug 28, 2019 in forum: Partner Support
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    Quinn's marriage journal

    A little of both. It was very toxic at times. I don't yell and I'm not at all aggressive but I do get sad and desperate and clingy. Couple of...
    Post by: TheMightyQuinn, Aug 28, 2019 in forum: Rebooting in a Relationship