Batty Belfry
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Batty Belfry

Fapstronaut, Male, 23, from United States of America

17 August 2019 - Wrote for myself and others. Attended a farmer's market. Met a woman there who leaned down her chest too low. I survived. Aug 17, 2019 at 7:11 PM

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    1. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      17 August 2019 - Wrote for myself and others. Attended a farmer's market. Met a woman there who leaned down her chest too low. I survived.
    2. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      16 August 2019 - Met family for tutoring during their first week back at school. Gifted their kids pocket dictionaries. Learning with them.
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      Batty Belfry
      15 August 2019 - Had a nocturnal emission but no image of a dream or one I could recall. Productive reading this morning and later today.
    4. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      14 August 2019 - Reading Lisa Funderberg's new book, Apple, Tree: Writers On Their Parents. How generations effect each other. Recommended.
    5. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      13 August 2019 - Changing routine. A portioned diet (intermittent fasting), reading/writing, planning the rest of 2019. Happy birthday, Mom.
    6. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      12 August 2019 - First day of reboot. Slept in for a few hours. Feeling more rested
      1. Tiger uppercut!
        Tiger uppercut!
        The most important one. Layin the foundation!
        Aug 12, 2019 at 12:31 PM
      2. Coffee Candy
        Coffee Candy
        Most important day to be won. :)
        Aug 12, 2019 at 7:30 PM
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      Batty Belfry
      I went 252 days starting in November 2018 until I relapsed in August 2019.
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      2. Batty Belfry
        Batty Belfry
        It's can be a mind-field, but each step is worth thinking about twice before the next step. Now, I'm taking each step at a time.
        Aug 11, 2019 at 2:24 PM
      3. Coffee Candy
        Coffee Candy
        Wow! Thats pretty amazing work. I always say if you can do it once you can do it again :)
        Aug 12, 2019 at 7:31 PM
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      4. Batty Belfry
        Batty Belfry
        Thank you for the kind and helpful words. There's always a way.
        Aug 12, 2019 at 8:22 PM
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  • About

    Gender:
    Male
    Birthday:
    Nov 20, 1995 (Age: 23)
    Location:
    United States of America
    Occupation:
    Writer
    Hello NoFap members,

    This is Batty Belfry joining you on the rebooting and retention lifestyle. I started watching pornography since I was 17 and have handled my sexual urges better, but not completely, in my early twenties.

    I recognize that I am attracted to women and for more than just their physique. I have friendships with women and have never had a relationship with a woman. The problem I feel and think I have is that I attract women in a way that has no sexual intentions, even though I am still sexually attracted to women.

    I understand that to know the person first is necessary to starting, building, having, and maintaining a relationship. I understand there is more to life than just sex, but of course, there would be no life without it.

    Humor aside, my circumstances (my conservative, religious, small town upbringing, for example) have taught, if not dictated, my approach to sexuality and relationships.

    My goals for and beyond NoFap are to:

    - Control emotional and physical responses.
    - Balance sexual urges with nonsexual activity.
    - Have meaningful, healthy, not regressive, relationships.

    To achieve these goals, I have written five core values:

    - Validation

    I am living proof that life in me and through me will carry purpose without the approval of others; unless it should make them better to have been inspired or advisory as my witness.

    How I approach my happenings and callings will be discerned by my character and by those who know my character. I choose myself not over another, but in the hope that I can become selfless.

    To the point of precipitation, may I cast rains of my good fortunes, whether it be a downour or a drop, so that it may be absorbed again and be shed once more for the people with and without clouds over their heads.

    Knowing the backs of my hands as well as the bottoms of my feet is my journey. Moving forward while standing still is my destination. Validation begins and ends always with the self.

    - Authenticity

    The true self presents itself through concrete changes in that my aims are not self-defeating. Self-discovery and self-awareness are the pours on the skin of authenticity.

    Being born anew is a constant exercise of the soul imbedded in the words and acts closely woven and to be worn as a diligent wardrobe. I will not only dress the part but will become the part I was made for.

    However, like a wardrobe, authenticity is not without divergence. There are many accessories that on the surface seem disingenuous and gaudy to the beholder, but as the wearer, it is a statement more than fashion only I can wear. Authenticity is the magician without his magic; the trick is to tell and to live the truth.

    - Love

    The matters of the heart think with a self-respecting emotional intelligence. It does not project selfish indulgence or pump empty promises that can only lead to bad blood. True love is a love of the self which translates to a common love for others.

    I hold a caring disposition in fear that no one cares at all and in strength that I still care despite being my own or part of the minority. It is a dangerous thing not to care, for there is no love where there is no care.

    The true exception revolves around self-love, where care must be placed on not only the little things but on the larger than life concerns set out for myself. Loving myself will find love in new places and faces who double the love to be had.

    - Originality

    Inspiration and aspiration, invention and reinvention, are distinct equals in the case of creation. As a creator, I will not rely on derivative platitudes or cluttering cliches as adequate expressions or explanations.

    Rather, the moments where I find lacking will force my unconscious feelings to become conscious thoughts and words for memories in the making.

    My ideas will be my own while accepting their close inspirations and far aspirations. To be original, I must practice while not succumbing to perfection and focus on fulfilling my good intentions and turn them into
    good actions.

    - Routine

    I will not have my hands be made idle. My work will become my play and when need be I will find the necessary separation of the two. I will shape a world of stagnation into one of dedication.

    Time will not be determined by the clock's hands but by the willingness of mine. Seconds or a century, my goals will not bend unlike my mode of operation. How I reach my successes wanes in the shadow of my reach still being done. I have a diligent and flexible work ethic that does not fall into mundanity, but rises through creativity.

    I will meet every day with sights on the next day so that I may say the days before me meant well and the days ahead of me mean better. On my last day, if I should have the company of one, it will have meant my trials and errors amounted to the continuous power of a hopeful routine.

    Thank you for learning more about me, and I look forward to adding more value to an already invaluable community,

    Batty Belfry

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