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Post published by Andyarr
Just rejoined.
I was doing quite well on my own last year, but since getting engaged just before christmas things have gotten a lot more difficult. We are long distance (she is in Texas and I am in Scotland) and i find myself turning to old habits when i am frustrated with work, or even having a rough patch in communication with my fiancee.
I know you guys dont need all these details but it feels good to be open.
I trully want to be a string, reliable, sensitive husband, and eventually Dad, and I know that this is a vital ste in doing these things to my full potential.
Thanks for listening and God bless.
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Myfortress
If you go back to PMO, you will mess up your intimacy with your soon to be wife. That's exactly what the enemy wants to destroy your marriage.
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Thomas8
I agree with Myfortess on his comments. Recommend reading or listening to a book called Everyman's Battle. It talks about PMO from a Christian stand point and gives techniques that can be followed to overcome this.
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rwilli62
Andyarr, it’s awesome that you had success in the past. I’ll be honest this is all new to me, going PMO free I mean, so thank God you have “tasted and seen” something better. Remember that your wife to be is a prize and instead of thinking about “not doing porn” think about how you could use that energy and time to develop yourself as the husband you want to be. Be that more time in prayer, studying, service, or even just developing your hobbies. Good luck brother and God bless. Don’t hesitate to share.
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