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Good morning. It’s Friday. Day 6. A bit apprehensive about the day. I’m struggling with my own selfishness. My in-laws may be visiting today and this will be weekend #3 that my wife’s family has her full attention. Meanwhile, she has been quiet and distant. And I sit across the room from her most evenings watching her on her phone reading or texting. Interactions lately are difficult because she will pepper me with questions without pause for answers. When I say something she gets angry and defensive. And I’m so tired of that routine. So the root of resentment is apparent. I’m trying to own my own part of this but she is convinced that I’m just being difficult. We’ve been playing this game for the almost 30 years of marriage. And I’m reaching the end of my rope. All this feeds my desire for PMO. Which is the ultimate lie or course. When i mention counseling she says you should go. So frustrating.