Post published by rwilli62

More to it than that, what's going on bro'?

Thoughts of relapsing are common..I am at day 50 something and have them all the time, though they are lessening. You can do this!!

I didn’t want to say too much but got hooked on porn involving oral sex/often rough. It’s not exactly romantic or loving but “fun to find” in porn and stuck on thought it’s my only way to get what I want.

Yeah, I understand. We can't always have what we want

I didn't mean that to be a simplistic answer. Not all women like doing that. In porn, they all seem to love it. Where's the reality?

I mean your statement is true, I’m struggling with just being “like that.” It’s not something my wife looks forward to and will do occasionally but I’d demand it every day if possible. Worst is that’s the sort of person in gone girl (movie//book) and I don’t want to be abusive.

Hi! One of the challenges we face is that PMO provides free access to all our fantasies. But real world and real people don't. So the easy path ("big is the door, and wide is the path who leads to perdition, and a lot of people follow it") is always P. But it's a mistake. We loose a lot by focusing in PMO and not with relationship with a real person. The love, the tenderness, the care... and not only that (I don't want to be specific, but the touch of your loved one skin...)... P cannot replace it. I hope this helps. The urge will always be there, and we have to be strong to fight it.