Please help me CD, sissy fetish *triggers*

I can tell you my friend that we got into the same shit. Today is my 7th day off PMO and I'm starting to loose control. You know it's like a trance that you yourself can not control. You need to have someone close that will know about your
problem.

 

I'm sorry to know that, bro. I was also into those fetishes too, and let me tell you some good news: There's a great life after those fetishes! It is something you can daily decide, but most important, you can reconcile with your manly side if you are commited to do so. Take cold showers and make exercise, these are the two things that mostly have made wonders for me.
I still have a long road ahead, but I'm sure we can be the men we were always meant to be.
I send you my best wishes, bro

 

A lots of guys here were into extreme fetishes and lots od guys felt like shit. You did the first step, it won't be easy, but I hope you will achieve your goals.

 

Hey dude, I know that you are going through a rough time at the moment. There is no easy way around this issue, I've been going through a similar thing myself and it really does come down to having the right support around you and also truly seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. If you are struggling with sP then there is reverse sP which basically reverses the feminine triggers and replaced them with masculine ones. Some may disagree but you are better off PMOing to that and then eventually quitting rather than PMOing to the feminizing stuff. Hope this helps bro

 

Its addiction that numbed and changed you..if you were gay you would already create a gay romantic relationship, i assume. but you are straight gy trapped in addictions , You used sexuality as your drug to live off, and that drug led to its courses and you ended up in this situation.
Same as how no heroin junkie wanted to be so in the first place, but a chain of substance based escalations brought him down to his knees in the streets..

Saying that, Theres no use to intellectualize it further, accept the fact that you will always have the seed of sexual addiction and that it will be a life of constant mindfulness and effort to sobriety.
The bottom line is, its all about breaking a habit from now on. So dont think about the meaning behind its arousal, its emptyness.
You have a job in life:
To not touch yourself in those areas at all,
To not look for any porn/dirty chats/any sexual article..
To not try to orgasm alone, you orgasm Alone and you make love with loneliness, and loniless is what sticks to you.

 

It's clear you're not gay since gay sex turned you off. Stop watching porn. It's messing with your brain

 

Wow porn is really a brainwash.

 

wow.
i've a compulsive foot fetish.
when i closed with p&m, i've better sex.
sometimes i fall in the foot fetish, but now it's real.

 

Where could u find reverse sP videos? The ones which I've found are traps, at the end it's changing to sissy hypno again...

 

They exist. But it's just more porn. Just stop watching porn and let your body do the healing

 

Ah nah bro don't watch them ones, I mean probably the best thing to do is stop watching porn all together, but if you do end up doing it you're better off doing it to porn that is telling you positive things IMO. I've had a problem with hypnosis stuff found a more positive straight version and it's helped a lot. But that's what I think anyway.

 

"if you orgasm alone you are making love to loneliness"
That's a great saying I will probably memorize

 

You are not transgender, there is no such thing as transgender. It's just gender disorder caused by porn, masturbation and low self esteem and/or other factors.

 

Just remember one thing : porn is not equal to life. Life is greater than any fetish. You want to achieve something and can be achieved by you.
Helps me to stay away.

 

By your description, this all sounds more like a fetish than a core sexual identity. In any case, the heavy porn use is complicating your feelings, especially this kind of porn which is particularly potent and dangerous. A full PMO reset will help you re-orient to your true self, free from the cloud of psychological manipulations. At that point, depending on how you feel, you can decide what path you want to take forward.