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Wife spying

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Johntempted, Apr 28, 2019.

  1. Well I was very angry when I read your post... But I calmed down because my intention is not to damage you. I hope this won't get deleted and I don't get banned. Before rushing here to add something myself I was thinking that I should first check the whole conversation and think about a rational way to act instead of flaming or writing aggresivly. I read everything up to this point. I was really hoping to find someone who feel the same as I do when I read your post and let out the anger. But no nothing in this conversation comes close to the anger I feel right now. Look I don't want to offend anyone .... but I probably will maybe I will lose some respect and get problems but thats f**king worth it.

    Look... I know how you feel no I am not married and yes I am very young compared to you. But once I developed such a kink or fetish as you as well. Betraying, cheating, cuckold, sissy..... cool... I it really fired my addiction up. It fueld my addiction to a unbelievable high. Like a disease spreading more and more in my mind evolving... But... I wasn't that much in it. I never did the step behind the point of no return... And you aren't there either because you can make many steps into this addiction... I am suprised how calm I am considering that I really hate your actions and thoughts... Thank you ... for coming here and posting this. No matter how much you enjoy this humiliaion there is something deep inside you begging for help... you are still holding on something .... Hope I guess. But now enough sugar for you.

    You ******** piece of ****. You know there is a person who could change everything, all your problems and fears. You are ill... People are enjoying life getting loved and feel happy.... You are so scared to take the responsibilty to change your life. Too scared to lose something so dear right ? SO WHAT ABOUT YOUR LIFE YOU ******* Idi*t you are wasting your life like you got some extra turns after this life ended. You are a marionett of your own desires. You don't deserve to be married as long as you don't change yourself. That B**** isn't innocent for all those MOTHER******* who Say "OH SHE GOT DESIRES TOO. IF YOU DONT GIVE WHAT SHE WANTS SHE WILL TAKE IT FROM SOMEWHERE ELSE" Wow you guys are ********. Doing something wrong stays wrong no matter what. ACCEPT THE FACT AND TAKE SOME RESPONSIBILTY. KILLING SOMEONE TO SAVE SOMEONE IS STILL WRONG NO MATTER WHO YOU SAVE OR KILL.

    If you need excuses keep looking you will always find some with ease. It is way harder to look for a reason to change something and keep holding that. I won't show any tolerance to this ****. I understand the masochist in you but I won't tolerate it. You are wea* that's okay. Being weak is nothing be ashamed of but staying weak is. Look at yourself, look at your younger self and try to explain why it is okay what you did and what you are going to do. Nobody and I mean NOBODY can help you out of this situation. You can only save yourself ... There is no Hero in sight.... Wake up.... or waste the rest of your life as well... Sometimes shit happens but one day we are grateful that it happend because we wouldn't be here if that wouldn't had happen. Change your life... Welcome to NoFap. Welcome to your personal training in hell :)
     
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  2. Randomusuername

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    You’re a cuckold. Some guys like to watch their wife have sex with other guys. Talk to her and figure out what you both want
     
  3. ultrafabber

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    That's a mental issue that needs correction. Just because some do it doesn't mean its healthy. It's obviously not healthy.
     
  4. AnxietyDude

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    Do you know why adult stars never stay married ? Same reason, physical attraction is a time limited thing. What you think is neat now could come crumbling down anytime now. Whats to say she doesn't dump you like a hot potato? If she is seeking, that is bad behavior.

    Also this is dead on.... @de severn
     
  5. SpringWater

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    This is beyond porn addiction

    This isn’t like she is an alcoholic

    He needs to man the fu&k up

    This is why “other cultures” are invading “our culture” and dictating new laws of the land,

    We are a nation of wusses.
     
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  6. I agree on this part. Don't take politics into this mess of disscusion
     
  7. SpringWater

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    I’m just saying our society is crumbling and one big reason is our apathy, complacency, and ignorance.

    Everything is linked and if we all keep our mouths shut...well..we already see what is happening.

    So I respect your opinion..but let’s not put a limit on any form of adding to a discussion.
     
  8. I agree on this one as well but lets kick more ass instead of talking about things that won't make this guy a real MAN!
     
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  9. Bale

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    I'm not sure who's the most f*cked up, honestly. This conversation got unnecessarily heated. It's also filled with cultural points of view that are being forced onto others. Please bear in mind that this is a place where people are seeking support and guidance, and are not necessarily willing to be fed the same crap that they see every day in books, movies, advertising, social networks and so on. Real life is not just black or white.
     
  10. Johntempted

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    Wow what reactions!
     
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  11. SpringWater

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    This is exactly the point..not to filter what anyone wants to add.

    Real life can be black and white.

    You eat junk food you get fat

    You exercise you get healthier

    Ugh!

    What’s up with everyone worrying about s greater expansion of opinions?

    As long as we are supportive.

    Ugh!
     
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  12. Johntempted

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    The reactions of the guys are very strong. A couple now try to connect with her through fb
     
  13. Erichpure

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    I don’t know if I agree to the hard tone. Or do I have similar tendencies? Never acted in it but I find it very erotic for example if I see a guy checks oiut my wife or looks at her boobs. We had a threesome once with another man. It turned me on surprisingly much see her get fucked from a younger guy. If I
    well i agree the age could have something to do with ut
     
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  14. Take it for what it’s worth, been asked invited many times to do threesomes but always was kinda like, what if I don’t like the 2nd girl? What if I don’t want to share ? I only have one dick anyway...

    I asked a escort about her feelings on the subject since I was not interested in hiring her services, and she said, and I quote “once you open that door {mmf threesomes) there’s no turning back.”
     
  15. Johntempted

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    She means it’s that hot? She does not want anything else? I agree it’s super hot
     
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  16. ultrafabber

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    It means two things: it may be more pleasurable (depends).

    The woman will never respect you again for allowing that and will lose attraction to you.

    Anyway, it's not hot at all, it's wrong.
     
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  17. Its your wife not a girl you just know. The person that told you to love you till the end. The person you should be able to trust most
     
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  18. You d*** piece of..... Get divorced you dont even respect what marriage means and a person you build a bound to. What a shame....
     
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  19. SpringWater

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    What’s happened to the world???

    I always thought a threesome was two girls and a guy( supposedly every guys fantasy).

    When did it become 2 dudes and a girl?

    I’m not bashing..porn warps us all.

    But think about it...

    They have changed us so much( whoever you want to think they means) to wanting another dude to be with us instead of another girl.
     
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  20. CS1

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    Sounds looks like porn has destroyed your compass .. any straight man will not accept that never ever whether religious or not..
     

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