URGENT MESSAGE!!!!!!

If she has a boyfriend, do not waste your time.

 

I need to overcome social anxiety first.

 

First of all I respect your feeling, everyone has been there, love is a wonderfull thing but you need to realize that your in a scarcity mindset, you put this girl on a pedestal and your also in denial.

From my point of view you probably did something to turn her off, probably you didn't even notice it, or maybe it was just your vibe in general, its normal we men are oblivious to this sometimes dont beat your self up over it. Also you don't know her story, you don't know whats going on in her background what she is going through theres always two sides to a coin.

Women do this, its natural you probably failed one of her tests but you need to realize something, there are no scarcity of women out there. There are millions of women out there just waiting for the right guy to show up, all you really have to do is be there.

"A woman opens the doors and all you have to do is go throw them, but if the door start shutting in your face you just walk away and never look back"

You need to accept the reality for what it is, she said"I have a boyfriend" aka i don't want to be with you, look at her actions

But its up to you on how you handle this in your head

"You can ignore reality but you cant ignore the consequences of ignoring reality"

Best of luck to you

 

Why are you asking for advice when you clearly don't want to listen to anyone unless they tell you what you want to hear? What's the point in even asking?

 

Also, why would you want to be with someone who is so quick and easy to cheat on their boyfriend? If she has a boyfriend and was totally fine with kissing you, what makes you think she would be faithful to you if you were together? I just don't understand at all why people want to pursue someone who says they are in a relationship and says they don't want to be with you. Why waste time on a cheater who blocks you when you could find someone who actually wants to be with you and isn't cheating on their boyfriend? There are plenty of other people in the world to choose from.

 

Yeah, you should definitely think about that. And there's no maybe about it, she IS a cheater. Unless she lied about having a boyfriend, she cheated on him with you.

 

Thats her saying she no longer has interest in you!

Like all of us men you saw what you wanted to see, what you were emotionality striving to achieve

You definitely fucked something up

Thats the only way it should be

And thats where you fucked up, and now in her eyes your just another insecure aggressive meat head with a volatile personality complex

Look im saying this to you in the most brutaly honest way possible becouse i want you to learn from it and become a bether person, dont take it the wrong way