Cheat with friends girl

Tell him, i think he would like to know anyways because he will know his gf is a cheater and if you respect him you would not leave him with her. Also dont try to defend yourself when you do it just accept it, say it was a mistake and you are sorry, it was a betray of trust and you understand if he does not want to talk to you anymore. You will ofcourse piss her off in the process but who cares.

 

I agree with the above. Absolutely you should tell him. It's completely unfair to him to not know that happened.

 

major mess up on your part, no offense. You should tell him though.

 

If you have a last bit of honor, you must tell him and deal with the consequences. His girlfriend must do the same thing by the way. Betraying a friend like that is a sign of weak personality.

 

Quite a situation you got yourself in. He needs to know. I would hope his gf would talk with first but he does need to know what happened.

 

This is very simple. If your friend has done this with your girlfriend, would you like to know? Take some time and really think about it, put yourself in that position and you will know the right answer.

 

Definitely tell him man. You messed up and now you need to grab your nuts and accept consequences. Your friendship might end. But in my opinion it's better to have no friendship at all than a fake friendship that is sitting on lies. If you tell him at least you will salvage some of your honor and integrity. We all make mistakes, we just human. We need to learn from them and grow. But we can't learn from them unless we own up to them.

 

My friend's girl flirts with me too. It's like taboo for them and an easy target. I haven't crossed the line. You messed up so own it. If she tells him before you then be prepared to lose that friend or a right cross.

 

Keep it a secret. What he doesn't know wont hurt him.

 

You know what you should do if you really consider him a friend.

 

You should definitely tell him. Secrets always come out.

 

Good job man

 

People make mistakes but It's good that you had enough respect to come clean and not be selfish. I'm sure he would be piss but at least he knows you're honest and he knows what kind of girl he's dealing with. In some ways you did him a favor.

 

How did it go?

 

Nice friend you are! Hahah, at least you told him. I will NEVER be in an open relationship but I respect those who enjoy it.