1. Welcome to NoFap! We have disabled new forum accounts from being registered for the time being. In the meantime, you can join our weekly accountability groups.
    Dismiss Notice

+++ 21 Days complaint free challenge +++

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Baldur, May 23, 2018.

  1. Baldur

    Baldur Fapstronaut

    Hej my dear fellow fapstronauts!

    As this is the self improvement section of our lovely community I would like to start a
    21 days no complaint challenge.
    The goal is to stay free from any spoken complaint for 21 days in a row. Just like nofap - but with complaints. :)

    I noticed that I complain about a LOT to my friends and family. Since I want to
    turn into a stronger person, I want to change this.
    Here is a good way to get into the process:

    The reasons for complaining are explained in the video.
    For the ones that are short in time:
    Get a wrist band / rubber band and start today.
    When you complain, change the band to the other wrist, you are now back on day 1.
    For this challenge any SPOKEN complaint counts. Telling the waiter that your soup is cold and has to be warmed up is not complaining. Bitching about it to your significant other, without doing any steps to solve the issue, is.

    So... write "Day 1!" When you start and keep us updated by posting your days and maybe a small comment on how it is going in this challenge thread. :)
    Remember, there is no shame in being on "Day 1", just like on our nofap journey.
    We are here to grow into better human beings.
    If you have any questions, feel free to ask.

    Cheers!
    /Baldur
     
  2. Baldur

    Baldur Fapstronaut

    Day 1!
    Let's see how far we will come!
     
    vxlccm and A41:14A like this.
  3. DR.LOThbrok

    DR.LOThbrok Fapstronaut

    80
    44
    18
    Cool challenge I'm in
     
    Spidermonky77, vxlccm and Baldur like this.
  4. Baldur

    Baldur Fapstronaut

    Welcome! :)
     
    vxlccm likes this.
  5. A41:14A

    A41:14A Fapstronaut

    179
    11,433
    123
    You know what... I'm in too
     
    Baldur and vxlccm like this.
  6. vxlccm

    vxlccm Fapstronaut

    5,292
    101,895
    143
    My Journal
    I should be in. Can't say I can do this. Day 0 right now.

    p.s. Good to see you here with us, @A41:14A !
     
    Baldur likes this.
  7. A41:14A

    A41:14A Fapstronaut

    179
    11,433
    123
    two weeks in - on a months holiday vx (two weeks to go..)
    All good :)
     
    Baldur and vxlccm like this.
  8. Baldur

    Baldur Fapstronaut

    Both of you are very much welcome!! I'm happy that you guys take part!

    Aaaand...I'm on day 1 again. Haha. :D

    Cheers!
    /Baldur
     
    Spidermonky77, A41:14A and vxlccm like this.
  9. Baldur

    Baldur Fapstronaut

    Day 2!!
     
    A41:14A likes this.
  10. Erick Pastora

    Erick Pastora Fapstronaut

    124
    252
    63
    Allright day 1 right away. Don't want to spend any more time complaining about stuff that doesn't go right. I'm a perfeccionist who wants to have everything in control all the time so this REALLY puts me out of my comfort zone, great idea bro. Love the concept.
     
    Spidermonky77, Baldur and A41:14A like this.
  11. Erick Pastora

    Erick Pastora Fapstronaut

    124
    252
    63
    I'll take advantage of this to wear my Brazil wrist band now that the WC is coming lol
     
    Baldur and A41:14A like this.
  12. Baldur

    Baldur Fapstronaut

    Awesome to hear fellow fapstronauts! Welcome to the challenge!
    Let's get stronger!
    /Baldur
     
  13. Day 0
    I'm in
    I can make my own lunch
     
    Spidermonky77 and Baldur like this.
  14. Baldur

    Baldur Fapstronaut

    Welcome! =) I think this challenge starts on Day 1. :)

    Cheers and great success!
    /Baldur
     
  15. Baldur

    Baldur Fapstronaut

    Aaaand Day 1. I seem to have a habit of complaining. Currently my situation with my loved one is a bit tricky so I'm all over the place
    searching for a solution.
    Anyway... I hope you are doing great!
    /Baldur
     
    Spidermonky77 likes this.
  16. Day 1.
    Yup. Day 1.
    I'm raising my awareness. As a result, (today) I'm complaining less (than yesterday)
    I'm also seeking solutions instead of complaining.
    Tough challenge.
     
    Spidermonky77 and Baldur like this.
  17. Mirach

    Mirach Fapstronaut

    Day 1
     
    Baldur likes this.
  18. Baldur

    Baldur Fapstronaut

    Great to hear! Keep on going. I have the feeling this challenge will transform us into wiser beings.

    Cheers!
    /Baldur
     
    Deleted Account likes this.
  19. Day 1
    I'm still on day 1. But, my level of awareness is raised and instead of complaining I'm resolving problems with solutions
     
    Spidermonky77, Baldur and A41:14A like this.
  20. Jesus, why are people always creating new cha... Oh... Fk I just relapsed.
    Day 0 for me boys!
     
    Spidermonky77 and Baldur like this.

Share This Page