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My Intro - NoFap works - It has worked 2 times already. This is the final 3rd time.

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by willgrit, Feb 11, 2015.

  1. willgrit

    willgrit Fapstronaut

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    I'll keep this short. I am in my mid-twenties now.
    I discovered NoFap about 1 and a half years ago.
    In short, my life was not very good, no good career and no good relationships (gf), at that time.

    [NoFap Experience #2] But I started meditating, and not fapping, AND working very hard :)
    Somehow the world changed, and I brought myself from a -1(bad) to a 0(normal life).
    Now, it's time for me to go to +1(extra-ordinary charged life).

    NoFap NOW: I have never been able to do a complete 90-day.
    The goal NOW: Do a 21-day (3 weeks), then a 90-day (3 months)


    ----- If you want to read further about my past: ----
    Now that you know what my near past was, my present and my future-plan is, I can tell u about my far past.
    I was an A student, had a part-time job in High-School, and went to a great college.
    Suprisingly, I did not masturbate until I was in college, and that's part of the reason why I was able to be somwehat successful throughout my middle and high school, and even half-way through college.
    Also, I had a gf in high-school, but I broke up with her once I went to Uni, because it was much further.
    Long story short, in my sophomore year I discovered porn, and started fapping a lot.
    All of a sudden, my grades plumetted.
    I did NOT attribute my laziness and my loss of motivation to fapping, because it was a gradual decline, and University was supposed to get harder as the years progressed.
    But I did some research on masturbation, back in the day when no info on porn's addictive nature was avaialable, and all the info said that fapping was OK and in-fact healthy.

    [NoFap Experience #1] In my junior year, I decided that fapping may have to do with my failing grades and shitty life, so I decided to not masturbate.
    Surprisingly, I was able to go about a month without porn and masturbation, and barely fapped about once a month for about a year after that. With that period of NoFap, I got another gf, landed a great summer job, and my grades came back up.
    That same company decided to hire me back full-time after graduation, so I was going to coast through my senior year.
    After starting a full-time job, and having lots of free-time, I went into porn again, and I started fapping more, and that brought me where I was 1 and a half years ago, when I decided to re-do NoFap.

    TLDR: NoFap WORKS. It has worked me 2 times in the past already.
    [NoFap Experience #3] This is the 3rd time, I want to champion it. I want to do my 90-days, and get rid of PMO for good.
     
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  2. willgrit

    willgrit Fapstronaut

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    I have had good 7-day streaks for about 3 weeks now.
    Gonna keep on trucking.
     
  3. Rousety

    Rousety Fapstronaut

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    What's up will grit- Thx for sharing your inspiring story. U are truly a smart and observant person. I never cared enough to attribute my failures to fapping, either because I didn't have the awareness or the willpower. U can do this. Personally, I'm not even a whole week in and I'm already experiencing high frustration and new clarity; but the confidence I read about and curiosity are real. I'm much more focused and could give a damn about what people think anymore. Rock on and welcome back!
     
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  4. willgrit

    willgrit Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the welcoming message Rousety.
    I can attest to the fact that NoFap works.
    But it is hard.
    The positive thing is this community and a wealth of new resources that exist now.

    So Good Luck to you too Sir. Lets do this. Lets win together.
     
  5. revital

    revital Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for sharing your story! It is motivating.
     

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