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Woww! I SUFFERED FROM PIED SINCE I WAS A VIRGIN AND I FINALLY HAD SUCCESSFUL SEX

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Timbogabe7, Jan 17, 2017.

  1. Timbogabe7

    Timbogabe7 Fapstronaut

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    i finally had successful sex today!!!!!!!! I couldn't tell you how great this feels man honestly. It's been such a long a road from anxiety attacks ,sleepless nights mental breakdowns ,suicidal thoughts ,feeling worthless , and just feeling like a don't belong. So many failed attempts and painful moments. So many times of feeling demasculated and feeling like I can't be the man a woman needs cause my dick doesn't work. I would have the girl of my dreams naked in front of me and I would stay limp Noodle gorgeous face, gorgeous body, and personality out of this world . Felt so ashamed this caused me to be depressed and my confidence went rock bottom.... But after TODAY THERE IS HOPE AND I KNOW THERE IS LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL I WILL RIDE THIS WAVE OF SUCCESS TO VICTORY OVER THIS ADDICTION AND I WILL KEEP MY FOOT ON THE NECK OF THIS DEMON WE CALL "porn" I WILL CONTINUE TO STRIVE FOR BETTER AND I WILL CONQUER MY GOALS. IVE SUFFERED FROM PIED SINCE I WAS A VIRGIN AND I FINALLY HAD SUCCESSFUL SEX IF I CAN DO THIS I KNOW AMYONE CAN ...TRUST ME GUYS PUT THE PORN DOWN TAKE HOLD OF YOUR LIFE DONT LET IT PASS YOU BY BE IN THE MOMENT AND EXPERIENCE EVERY FEELING YOU GET. Be in the moment....Keep on pushing ! Do Not relapse ! DO NOT MASTURBATE! DO NOT THINK YOU WILL BE LIKE THIS FOREVER! YOU WILL HEAL TRUST ME PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE!
     
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  2. Mr Free

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    Hello Timbogabe7!

    I'm in the same shoes as you, I would get hard but lose the erection mid-penetration. It was too detached and boring which isn't how it should be. I have questions for you!

    1. Did you have a partner during your reboot, and did you feel like it helped you progress better?
    2. What were some positive signs that you saw that were indicators of your recovery?
    3. How long did it take you to see initial improvement?
    4. How long did it take for you to see substantial improvement?
    5. Did you use any ED Drugs?
    6. How old are you?
     
  3. It's great. I'm glad you healed the damage for a big part.
    Congratz!
     
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  4. Pablo1

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    Amazing man, I'm happy for you. I'm at the start of a 90 day... I've rebooted once before only took me 17 days and my wood came back, my first 4-5 partners I could not get it up with, because of pied, but I know the feeling of it finally working and feeling like a man again. I can't wait to get back there. I can't wait till it just "goes up" at the sight of a girl naked in my bed, I know it's gonna be a long road, but it'll be worth it.

    Had any issues with premature ejaculation with this though? I trained myself with porn to cum in minutes if I wanted to... In sex I can't hold it in... Any advice appreciated. Feel free to drop me a pm...

    Peace
     
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  5. Timbogabe7

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    Hey oc I'll b more then glad to answer your questions

    1. Yes I did have a partner during my reeboot and it definitely helped a lot . Physical Human contact was big for me especially opening up to her about it and letting her know what I'm going through definitely takes the weight off

    2. Some indicators were more frequent morning wood, i stopped getting pre cum after I used the bathroom or if I thought about a sexual thought ,started feeling less depressed , better decision making , and just the want for connection with a human being

    3./4. Well I'm at 6 and a half months

    Month1- everything was looking great. My energy and motivation were increasing day by da
    Month2-flatlined ehh energy dropped many failed attempts of sex went into a deep depression
    Month 3-Happy I made it to 3motnhs but still felt depressed and felt insecure of myself also had bad anxiety
    Month4- Felt a little better but I failed at sex again so I just lost hope but read through some inspiring forums so decided to stick with it
    Month5- Morning wood came back slowly .. My energy lifted again started forming better habits . Deleted all my social media stopped looking at my phone as much developed new hobbies like sprinting and reading.. also Started becoming more interactive with people. I even opened up to my parents about my problem (I know I didn't think I would do that but it helped a lot ) .
    Month6- Quit my job it wasn't making me happy but I ended up getting a new one a week later because of the energy and determination. Morning wood improved,better mood, more energy, will power to stay committed even when I'm tired for ex: I have a 8 page paper due but I have an 14hr shift. I would do the paper after my shift where as before when I was pmoing I would've probably avoided doing the paper and just fapped and went to bed. But wallah after all this I was successful

    5. I tried horny goat weed but when i took it it basically just produced more pre cum and as soon as I started making out with my girl I would be leaking all over the place causing my erection to die . This made me sure that this is all just mental and porn really is the cause of these dysfunctions that we are going though .

    6. I'm 20 yrs old and I have SUFFERED FROM PIED SINCE I WAS 14
     
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  6. Timbogabe7

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    Hey brother premature ejaculation is a mental thing in my opinion .. I used to burst in seconds like literally just halfway in I'm done but that's because I went in with a wild unrelaxed mindset. If you pace yourself and work your way into it you'll be able to last way longer. Relax your mind and appreciate the moment
     
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  7. Mr Free

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    Thank you for answering those questions! I'm 21 this year and pretty much looking to cure myself too. I agree that social media is a big trigger, it's awful. I'm glad you had success man. Really happy for you!
     
  8. Awesome success @Timbogabe7! Thanks for sharing. I haven't been able to ejaculate without porn and masturbation.
     
  9. powerwithin89

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    I know this is an old thread but Congrats Man! I just wrote a post a few days ago about an extremely embarrassing situation and what you've just wrote gives me so much hope. I hope you continue to have great sex with a woman, which is something I would give anything for right now. congrats again on your journey!
     
  10. Wonderful :D congratulations!
     

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